Does this sound like preg to you?! Please help!!?

Question

Mk, on June 14 me and my girl had unprotected s*x, I think pre-*** got in her, but she had a period, June 24th and then July 24th.

We had s*x again July 31st. It was protected, and extra safe.

She is now almost 4 days late on her period but is also been extremy stressed out over some stuff.

She's going to get a text but what do you guys think?!

I do kno some people say it's normal and stuff to be late sometimes or early.

I am sure that it is not implatational bleedin when she did have her periods, the last one was bout 1-2 days shorter and darker but implantation is usually shorter, lighter flow, and a pinkish color and this was not.

Someone please help, I'm very worried I'm 15 she's 14 so yea.

No signs of PMS or preg either.

Answer 1

No, actually I wasn't doing that at your age.  I was too busy being a KID.

Anyway, she's young, so her cycles aren't always going to be like clockwork.  She still may be pregnant because no form of protection is 100%.  I suggest you walk to the store and pick up a pregnancy test.

Then, you and your girl can consider either growing up really fast if it is positive, or [hopefully] behaving more like your age and leaving the grown-up stuff for grown-ups.

Answer 2

I agree with everyone else, at 14 your period hasn't regulated enough to really track it good. Stress also plays a factor in the lateness, also, was it your first time? I didn't have s*x the first time until I was almost 18 and I know my period was a bit screwy after that...it's like a little shock to your va-jay-jay. You shouldn't be so defensive about what people are saying on here, you should have known that saying you two are 14 and 15 and having s*x that there would be an uproar. I still think it's crazy that kids that age are having s*x, but I know in this day and age that it's going to happen. I would just wish that if kids ARE going to have s*x, that you're educated about the risks and you do it safely. I just hope this pregnancy scare has taught you two a lesson and your girlfriend gets on birth control and she takes it like she is supposed to and that you always, always, always wear a condom.

PS, what does having a black belt have anything to do with anything? And if you are studying to become a doctor, please learn to spell a little better. It's anatomy, not annadamy. That comes off catty, but people will take you more seriously if you can spell right.

Answer 3

It is more than likely just her being late or skipping a month, however, she should be seen by a Doctor to rule it out...AND TO GET BIRTH CONTROL.

A 15 year old and a 14 year old shouldnt be having s*x. Especially unprotected s*x.

If you had any respect for her, you would respect her enough to not want her to be THAT girl. Guys dont get bad reps for having s*x, but girls do. Do you want your buddies thinking she is easy or that she is a w***e? What do you think people will say about her if you get her pregnant?

Do you know how rough pregnancy is on a body, not to mention a young one like hers?

Are you old enough to support a baby?

Keep it in your pants and at the VERY LEAST...keep it covered if you are going to have s*x and make sure who you are sleeping with is on birth control. You may not be old enough to know this but condoms can fail.

Answer 4

Ok reading your responses makes it even more apparent to everyone on here. 14 year olds and 15 year olds shouldn't have s*x. This child cant even type/spell or understand what some people were trying to tell him.

"Share love for one another" The greatest love two people can share is not having s*x. Grow up.

She doesn't sound pregnant. She just sounds stupid for giving it up to you.

Answer 5

Number 1: you may not be her only lover so she may be pregnant by someone else, always protect yourself

Number 2:  stop having s*x until you're older, you'll see see as you age

Number 3: pregnancies and periods are way too unpredictable to just guess at the signs and symptoms, only a test can help you there and they are usually very reliable

Number 4: you sure do talk big talk for a 15 year old.  

good luck

Answer 6

Sounds to me as if her stressing out about it is causing her period to be delayed. Usually ovulation happens about 14 days after the 1st day of her last period. (I know, confusing, but God didn't make things easy for us to figure out! LOL) Depending on how many days her cycle length is determines what day she ovulates. There's websites that offer free ovulation calendars. She would just type in her last 2-3 periods and it'll tell her when her best days to get pregnant are. At least then you guys can avoid those days!

If she's active in sports activities, that can also cause irregular periods. I was in every sport in school and I would get my period only 4-5 times a year. I miss those days! LOL I don't know why that is, but that happens to girls sometimes. If you guys are that nervous, just have her take a test and if it comes back negative, chances are her period will start shortly thereafter.  

Answer 7

If she had a period, she's not pregnant.  It's more than likely the stress...

But again, why are CHILDREN having s*x?  If you're not ready for the consequences, you're not ready for s*x.

EDIT:  Actually, when I was your age, I was studying and focusing on what SHOULD be your priorities at your age.  I didn't have s*x until I was almost 20. That being said, I got pregnant.  Luckily, I am now happily married to my daughter's father and I am a college graduate.  Don't act like you know everything.  You're proving our point that you're not mature enough to handle s*x by saying things like that.  There's PLENTY of time for s*x, babies, and girls...in fact, you have the rest of your life.  Why not enjoy being a kid and doing well in school and setting yourself up for success rather than failure?

Answer 8

at 14 your periods aren't usually on a routine schedule. at that age women have intense hormonal bursts inside their bodies that can play havoc with her periods.

being under stress can do the same thing.

plus, if a girl is worried sick about being pregnant, the worry can make her late.

i doubt very much that she is pregnant.

the first sign of pregnancy is PMS symptoms. and the first sign of a period coming is PMS symptoms.

since there are no PMS symptoms yet i'd say she is merely late this time, nothing to panic over.

keep being extremely safe and you'll be fine :)