Does this spice up marriage?

Question

My wife suggested we go to an adult toystore to spice up our marriage. Without getting too graphic has this spiced up your marriage. I have never been to one good or bad idea?

Answer 1

Great idea.

Answer 2

I think that it is a good idea.  You would be surprised at how much different your s*x life will be after you go, and purchase some things.  

Answer 3

Good Idea.  There is all kinds of fun and kinky things there you can try.

Some you will laugh, while others will get the juices flowing:)

A good online one is www.adameve.com - if you want to take a looksee and get ideas before you go!

Awesome wife :)

Answer 4

Great idea!  Your wife is trying to keep things fresh!  

Answer 5

Yes, be happy that she is willing to take a chance like this.  My wife and I have done it a couple times, just to pick out new "gadgets" or movies.  It usually leaves us both feeling naughty, so we go home and try them out right away.

Answer 6

It can't hurt:)

Answer 7

great idea! if you dont want to go to a store go to adameve.com they have very good prices and they ship in plain boxes. start out with cheaper ones to see witch ones you like and than get a better one after you find out what works for both of you  

Answer 8

Those places are disgusting and filled with creepy old men.  It really wouldn't spice up anything in my relationship.  I feel deeply sorry for people in the s*x industry.  It's akin to going to a strip club.  I always end up crying for those poor girls.  But if you're all for the degradation of women and like playing in the pitfalls of society- knock yourself out!

Answer 9

Its not a bad idea at all.  my husband and I do it from time to time.

Answer 10

Stewart it may very well add some spice to your life if you have an open mind.  Besides ever if you do not purchase anything it will give you two of lots ideas to discuss and give each other ideas of what each might like to try.  Best of luck.

Answer 11

A s*x store is always nice to go to with your wife/husband or partner. :) who knows what you'll find weather it b a vibrator for her or a game or movie it's always fun.

Answer 12

Give it a try. Open up to her suggestions.

Answer 13

I don't think it's "going to the toystore" that does it, it's what you buy and bring home that makes all the difference....  

Answer 14

Good idea.

And you have a cool wife.

Enjoy!

Answer 15

it will definitely create the opportunity to discuss your sexual fantasies. i dont see how it can hurt unless your fantasy is to be raped by 12 year old p**n stars on the 50 yard line of the superbowl at halftime with your wife tied up and forced to watch from the endzone.

Answer 16

yes it does... my and  my lady go there sometimes when we have nothing else to do... its actually a turn-on for her... my s*x drive is very high so if shes hot...im a sauna...lol.. but it allows you and your partner to see what sexual fantasies, positions, prefernces, etc... it wil spice it up alot... we got some body oils and creams and other things that have blossomed me and my lady's s*x life...

Answer 17

yes, and it great. There are a lot of things there that can be really fun. I love the flavored oil. You use a little and when u blow on them they warm the area. Without getting into too many details. go check it out. get a couple of things to start. My bed buddie and i have all kinds of stuff. and we both have had the best s*x in yrs. Relax and enjoy it. Its great fun. and it i all just for fun. if you don't like something that you've gotten the move to something else.

Answer 18

Hey it does spice up ones s*x life and I see nothing wrong with using the stuff to get even more pleasure with our partner.Go for it I say!

Answer 19

Great idea.  You two can find some fun 'toys' that you can enjoy together.  My husband and I use toys sometimes to spice things up.

Answer 20

Go for it.

Answer 21

If you dont feel comfortable about it let her know.

There's nothing wrong with spicing up a love life as long as youre married.  

Answer 22

Yes, we go and get videos to watch together!

Answer 23

If your marriage needs to be spiced up....why not give it a try.

It won't kill you and you can always so....No.