Does your first time having s*x hurt?

Question

im obviously a female

eager lol

idk how its gonna feel

kinda nervous

so many fine guys wanna have s*x wit me

but im scared

lmao

wierd-i know but idk

complicated

im just a teen =]

Answer 1

dont just sleep with a "fine" guy wait till your NOT nervous and you've been with them for along time and you know they arent going to just have s*x with you and leave. wait till your older and when you do use protection so you dont get pregnant or an STD.

and yes it is very uncomfortable it does hurt.

Answer 2

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now, it shouldn't really "hurt". you may feel a little discomfort, especially if your hymen is still connected, if you aren't aroused, and if you're nervous. just try to relax, maybe have a little foreplay beforehand, take it easy, and communicate with your partner. however, i don't suggest you to have s*x with someone just because they want to have s*x with you. a lot of girls, especially teenagers, have a hard time letting go feelings and emotions for the guy they lost their "virginity" to. so, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons. believe me, I'm also a teenager (15 to be exact), and I've been dating the guy for over a year. things do change, not necessarily for the worst or better; they just do. now, by no means am I preaching abstinence, because i have no right to do so, but i just don't want you to regret something you could avoid. if and when you do have s*x, use birth control (condoms, the pill, spermicide), and be aware that with s*x comes responsibility. you may also want to start getting annual testing for STDs and STIs; it's better to play it safe than sorry. oh, and check with your local health clinic. i know at mine they give free birth control pills and condoms, and cannot tell your parents...

good luck :D

Answer 3

Just use protection, and don't be pressured to do anything you dont want to

I just had s*x today and it was amazing, but it wasnt my first

s*x Will hurt the first time!!..and your va*gina might be sore for a day, but after you do it a few times it starts feeling really good

Im 15..

Answer 4

Hmmmm I would advise you to wait, seriously. It's not worth it. And the fine guys only want to have s*x with youb/c ur a virgin. Then, I bet you any amount of money they will skip out on you after they are satisfied. I'm not saying to wait until you get married. Although that would be the best idea. But at least wait until your'e a little older and you can distinguish Lust from Love and you know that the guy really cares about you.

EDIT

Well I'm only trying to give you advice I wish I would have listened to. I'm not saying that you are ugly by any means, I'm just stating that a lot of guys go after virgins. But you do what you want, you're going to anyways. You will see what I mean when you get a little older and wiser. If you do decide to have s*x, just keep it safe. And remember STDS, HIV, and Babies

Oh yea and it does hurt.

Answer 5

For most females, yes it does hurt or there is some discomfort

Answer 6

Yes. Wait until you're older, you're not ready if you're scared. Plus you are risking  getting pregnant and getting an STD as a teen.

Answer 7

it hurts a little, but over time it gets better, just be sure to use protection so you don't get pregnant, and its better if you love the person!

Answer 8

I personally didn't have that problem but I was guilty of masterbating (with insertion) before I had real s*x so I think that affected it.

Answer 9

yes it does and plz wait till you are married - you will always wish you had waited for the perfect special guy one day :0)

Answer 10

SHOOT EFF DEEZZ FEEZZZ.

IF YOU GOT ****** WANTING TO GET IN THEM JEANS.

THEN p***y POP ON DEM.

YA HEARD MEH.

SHOOT I CANT WAIT TILL MY FIRST TIME.

THATS WHY I BE DOING SPLITS DAILY.

HOPIN THAT IT WILL RIP SO MY FIRST TIME WILL JUST BE FILLED WITH PLEASURE.

YA FEELZZ  MEH.

BUT YEAAHH FUXXX WITH YA HEARD.

MZ. BREEZZZY IS OUT!

=]

Answer 11

Yes it does hurt so maybe you should wait until you older, much older.  

Answer 12

remember fine guys have carry aids to so always be protected in what ever you do.