Does your mom read over your shouldr when your on the computer?

Question

it makes me mad. Its not like i am doing anything bad and why is it her buisness what i am tryping

Answer 1

No I never did have a mother, but my ex husband does that very same thing, He knows I don't have answer to him but he is for whatever reason is still jealous and has to know whom I am talking to. I don't answer to him were not married anymore. Maybe have you ever thought that maybe just maybe she is either trying to protect you from all the weirdos who on line or maybe she wants to know what her daughter is in to, cz being a parent it is very hard to let our children grow up. Some times us mother's want or try to be your friend and we seem to go to far. Just sit her down and talk to her in a calm manner.

Answer 2

Be glad your mother cares. It is her job to care and these days most parents don't care at all, what a lonely world. Don't worry unless you are doing something bad. She loves you no matter what you think and she has your back! After school is all over and done mom is still there and friends are gone forever, the real world sets in...Enjoy child hood while it last.

One day life will be about family, money and bills.

Answer 3

Exactly!

And she reads your texts too?

I mean, its not like i am doing anything bad, but it makes me mad, as if i were doing something bad. I just respect my privacy!

And yeah, she'd acess my myspace and read all of my c**p.

So i deleted my myspace,

but made another.

She doesn't know about it.

Answer 4

MY MOM DOES THAT TOO!

ITS SO ANNOYING!

And I get pissed off too!

And I tell her to leave me alone

Answer 5

Sometimes and it's really annoying, also  when she uses my computer and I have a lot of stuff open idk if he does it on purpose but she minimizes my stuff ONE BY ONE the websites and the messenger Windows and kinda looks at the conversation for a few seconds! it soo annoys me!!

And when she finally opens the internet instead of typing the website she clicks the little arrow and looks for the site in the list, it's not like i got to any sites i shouldn't but it just annoys me!

Answer 6

just type POS all the time and if she asks wat it means then make up a fake meaning if u save up enough money then buy one to go in ur room its not like she can be in ur room all the time.

Answer 7

Occasionally.  But, they don't care.  I mean its not like I have any bad pro.  They can look all they want at my e-mail profile.

Answer 8

My mom could give a **** less.Sadly I dont live with my mom but with my grandparents:(My grandma would do it sometimes but not often before she stopped completely.Maybe its becuase I'm 16 that she thinks I can handle what's on the web.I  really dont know.There was one time my gramps was getting on and I ran to my room. they later asked me if there was something I didnt want them to see.h**l yes there is!All I have to say is thank you god for no parental controls^^

Answer 9

That is annoying.My dad used to do that.I was only 10 but still.If your a teen it's none of her business...Just talk to her and tell her to back off and that she can trust you

Answer 10

turn around, give her a kiss and say

I can't sell myself with you right here

Answer 11

Sometimes I think she does but she's really good at doing it innocently, so I don't know.

Answer 12

My dad does, then he eventually stopped.

Answer 13

yessim, she is right now, and needs to go the f*ck away.

(i just go slapped)

i dont know why she cares.

my dad is worse

Answer 14

ugh. all the time. my mom and my 18 yr old sister. im not doing anything wrong, but im talking to people about their lives and i dont want them to know about it. i just im them, tell them ''brb'' then exit out of the im till they go away, then if they stay there, ill sign off and just play some games on the computer till they go away.

Answer 15

OMG! yes both my parents do and it p**s me off

they think i well get into trouble but they know me better than that

and yes i know they are just trying to protect me but its not like i go on pages like that

they both always want to know what im doing and they say they trust me but they won't let me be on the computer for more than 5 minutes without looking over my shoulder and reading what ever is there and they stand there for like 10 minutes at a time

it is SO annoying

Answer 16

my mom does that and  its like if i was doing something wrong or typing something i wasnt suppose to like wtf mind ur own buissnesss my god lolz ... and she tells me what is that ??  why do u have so many pages ?? its really anoying so i have a backup. page wit like disney stuff so she dont ask so many friken questions =]

Answer 17

No my mom dose not but have you herd about the 9 thing?

When your mom or some one enters the room when you are on a chat room type in 9 when they leave type 99. Or confront her.

By the way: TEAM JACOB!!!!

Answer 18

She has before.  If I have IM's open and if someone sends me one I won't open it until they leave.

Answer 19

omgawsh, I know, right?

I'm sitting there like "DO YOU WANT ME TO FAIL ENGLISH CLASS MOM?" because I absolutely CANNOT type when someone's watching me.

Answer 20

It shouldn't bother you if you're not doing anything wrong. My mom does it all the time. I have nothing to hide so I don't care. It should be comforting to know she cares enough to make sure you're not talking to one of the predators Chris Hanson always catches on NBC.

Answer 21

yeah she does.. well she tries.

i just close off everything, turn around and stare at her until she goes away

lmfao :D

Answer 22

yea lol she actually took my computer away and read what she i had been typing to my friends and then questioned me about it. she is really nosey. i hate it cause i dont do anything really bad but just maybe ....

Answer 23

MY MOM IS SO MUCH WORSE!

she gets onto my comp and reads all my messages and comments on my myspace

[love your name btw]

Answer 24

omg yes my mom and brother there so nosy but i give them credit for caring so much

Answer 25

LOL she is worried. As a parent, it is her right to do so...even though it may be annoying as h**l. It only shows that she cares and loves you.

Answer 26

sometimes and its sooo annoying.

Answer 27

My parents used to. I am 22 now and they do it to my siblings. It bothers me a lot and I think that kids should be given privacy until they give the parents a reason not to trust them.

Answer 28

Yeah. Also the computer is right next to the TV so they can monitor me. Then again, I was in some internet legal disputes.

Answer 29

Uhg. My mom does the same thing. It gets on my nerves too, I try to remember that she is just trying to protect me. She told me that she just wants to keep me safe. And the truth is, you're probably not doing anything bad because you know your mom will read over your shoulder. If your parents were less involved and didn't care what you did online, you probably would be the kind of person that would get into trouble online. So try to think of it as a blessing, if you can. Your parents love you, and that's why they do annoying things.

Answer 30

yeah, even though she says she isnt and says she cant even read it lol but its so obvious

tell her, in a nice way, that you dont like her to read what your writing and that she can trust you, but live up to that promise

Answer 31

sometimes, but not in a snoopy way. shes just like hey molly if your talking to a friend invite them over sometime. she may be snooping though. but my and your parents are just worried. theres no reason not to be, people are nasty!