Does your mother still get on your nerves?

Question

I had to cancel my wedding two weeks before the sceduled day because I caught my fiance cheating... that was a month ago and yesterday my mom looked at me with one eyebrow lifted and said "Well, what have you LEARNED from this?"

Answer 1

I guess you learned nothing if you did not call off the wedding.  You need to call it off.   Unless you are willing to live the rest of your life with someone you can not trust.

Answer 2

STAY STRONG.

Answer 3

moms r going 2 annoy u till the day u die & then some.

Answer 4

So that was your decision..not hers..

Answer 5

its good he cheated to show you who he really is before you married him. its good you took out the trash. i have no idea what you mom meant by that, but i have some scenarios that i'm Just MAKING UP okay!

1) she probably said that becuase either you were just a boring person to be with which caused him to cheat

or

2) she told you this because she figured that by now, you should be able to tell the difference from a manwhore to a real man

hmmm or

3) maybe you rushed into this so fast that you didnt get enough time to get to know him to really see through him

Answer 6

I'm sorry about your fiance but it is good that you found out about his cheating before you were married.  It must have been such a shock to you.  I hope that you are doing okay.  What your mom said wasn't nice.  She should be supporting you at this time.  My mom used to get on my nerve so much.  She is no longer in my life.  Long story.

Answer 7

Your mother will always try to protect you even until the day she passes away. You should be so lucky as to have your mom still around. I lost mine in '99 and have not been the same since. But, I was a 'mama's boy'. My oldest brother is 'kinda' filling the void presently. Always cherish & listen to your mother. She is your best friend whether you realize it or not.

Answer 8

oh my godd! trust me, he is not worth marrying if he cheated on you 2 weeks before your wedding!! goshh and for your mom, i thought they were there to support you??!?!! i wouldnt of talked to her for a VERY long time. (until she says sorry of course..) you just need to stay strong! dont let HIS mistake get you down(:

Answer 9

What did your mother think about him prior to your engagement and his acts of aultery? Did she give you her honest opinion saying that he wasn't good enough for you and that he would only break your heart? If so, she probably asked that question because as most would say "Mother always knows best". Either ways, my mom still gets on my nerves.  

Answer 10

Wow, that's kind of harsh. She should be a little more sympathetic. This must be a really hard time for you, and being a smart a$$ isn't the mother's role during times like these.

My mom gets on my nerves too sometimes. Like when we argue and I ask "are you mad at me?" she'll tell me "Only dogs get mad" and she'll walk away.

Or when me and my boyfriend are fighting, she'll tell me "He's really right you know..." and dumb stuff like that which only makes me madder.

But on the other hand, when our finances got really bad she helped me to pay my bills and keep food on the table for me and my son. She paid my reinstatement fee so I could drive and get to school...so I forgive all her past remarks. You should try to also, because one day you will probably need your mother very much...and she will be there for you before anyone else!