Does your s*x life really die after marriage?

Question

So I've only been married for about 6 months...I love my wife to death, she's my life...but I was curious, after awhile does the s*x life really die? I mean, it already has some...when we first met we had s*x like 3-4 times a day (neither of us had jobs), but now we're both working a lot and so its down to about once every other day, or so...I don't mind that so much, but I just don't think I couldn't handle not getting it for like 6 months straight.

Answer 1

Welcome to married life! what you need to do is make time for s*x! don't let life get in the way of s*x! s*x is the best part of being Married so make sure you still find time in ur busy life to have it again 4 times a day maybe try and get the same days off and spend the day just showing her that love before marriage! Good Luck....

Answer 2

I don't know I'm not married but I have a serious relationship and mine is great:)

Answer 3

No not at all

Answer 4

It will on her part you need to be looking

Answer 5

YES!!!

Answer 6

Yep, right after you say your I Dos

Answer 7

Dude, you still get it.. the problem is after a while you don't want it! when your married its like eating oatmeal for breakfast lunch and dinner for years on end.  same ol, same ol.., the problem is you still have to go to the store and see things like steak, shrimp, chocolate, fresh fruit, fine whine, cheese etc..  you even get to smell all those things cookin, but nope you've been trained you've got hot oatmeal, warm oatmeal, cold oatmeal, yesterdays oatmeal, tomorrows oatmeal just waiting at home for you.  don't worry when you get hungry enough it will be as good as you expected it to be, but never better than it used to be. And That is why they call us dogs or pigs.. they never get anything different to eat either.  So how do you like your oatmeal?  HAHAHAHAHAHA  

Answer 8

It does slow down some, but if you keep things open and you both stay in tune with each other it won't go to the opposite extreme.

Answer 9

i can't say that, b/c i am only married for 1 month and 2 weeks, going on the 3rd, and i am enjoying my s*x life with my hubby, its incredible, we make passionate love every night, and every morning right before we go to work, and its awesome, God i hope s*x doesn't die with us!

Answer 10

no i don't think it will...but doing 3 4 times a day doesn't help just because you guys might get tired and wore out fast  

Answer 11

r u fricking serious?

stop watching soo many movies.

it wont as long as u dont let it.

obviously as you grow up you dont have as much free time to do it all the time.

u guys did have jobs right? so all u did u was do it.

now ... wow.... u have jobs... a real life.... wow u grew up.

just find time for each other and it will happen naturally.

Answer 12

For some it does, i mean i could only speak from experience, and in my marriage we've been married for 6 yrs today, actually today is our anniversary, and yes, once before our s*x life did so decrease, we were at a point once that we were not having s*x at all, we went 2 months already without sexual contact, and what hurt the most is that we each was so absorbed in our own business life that we didn't even miss the s*x, until while talking one day,, and we started kissing, and the feelings sparked again, and one thing led to another, and we had wild, passionate s*x, afterwards then we realized that all the stress, and frustrations that came with our careers was all b/c we weren't taking the time out to be with one another, so we had made a promise to keep it up, that was a year ago, now i can say happily, that we succeeded in that, and we're having regular s*x, sometimes even multiple times per day, ,and we're enjoying it lots, so yes life can get so busy sometimes that s*x can become a thing pf the past, but i suggest that you try not to let that happen, try your best to keep that passion with your wife, don't allow life to get you to the point of lack of intimacy w/ur wife, always, always, always,make time for her.have fun!

Answer 13

s*x hasn't died in my marriage.

My husband and i have been happily married 17+yrs and we make love 2-3 times a week.

Answer 14

Is that the most important matter in your marriage?

Answer 15

it slows down every year, progressively.

when you start having children, it really goes down hill.  by the time the children finally leave the nest.  you just dont care anymore.

Answer 16

it may slow down a bit because with marriage comes greater responsibilities and while doing those responsible things, you have less time and are more tired. Kids do that too. It's up to you both to decide that you will not let that happen. It happens to those people that expect that to happen.

Answer 17

Yep, I was told to put 1 penny in a cup for every time we made love during the first year of Marriage. From year 2 thru 10, you take out 2 pennies ever time you make love and after you have been married 10 years, there will be pennies still left in the cup.

Answer 18

Yes, because you tend to get caught up in the day to day stuff, like cleaning, laundry, kids, yard work, etc.  That's why it is best to wait until marriage for s*x, because then you won't know what you are missing!

Answer 19

What does you wife say on the matter?  Talk it over with her.  

Answer 20

Will you relax.  s*x happens the way the two of you want it to.  It has nothing to do with marriage!  You should have s*x only when you could and only when you both want to.  

Don't say there is a problem because you were married.  There is a problem in your relationship if you're not making love to each other.  Nevermind how much.  It's a natural thing!

Answer 21

james ,,james ,,james,,,yes my child,it will soon pass away,,,,unless you're like me and still got it,,,glaze donut effect,,,its a wonderful thing!

Answer 22

I think it'll die down some, but not a whole lot...at points when you're arguing a lot it might all together stop for awhile, but just fix it and get past that stage and you'll be okay.

Answer 23

Mine didn't. It was after my child was born that it did...

Answer 24

It does? hmm, Ive been married 15 years going strong at 4-5 times a week.  

Answer 25

You're ALREADY b*tching & you're getting it every other day?  Some people just REFUSE to be happy.  

Answer 26

It will die down if you let it. It is really important to keep the passion alive. Expect some ups and downs, but try at least a few times a week. Be sure to keep the romance, candle lit dinner, s**y lingerie (for her... or you, whatever you are into ;)... etc. Just like a relationship, intimacy should be something that the two of you are consistently working on... Good luck :)

Answer 27

It will some, but that's normal.  After jobs and the house and one day-kids, its hard to find the time.  You both have to make time for each other.  Make one night a week for a date night.  Go to dinner, movie, and make it a romantic night.  I know that's just once a week, but at least it will be a guarantee of time together.  And lastly   QUALITY NOT QUANTITY.    No matter how much or how little you do it, make it count (enjoy it and take your time).

Answer 28

It doesn't die, it just gets severely wounded or crippled.