Doesn't it hurt for you to?

Question

just think about your past and how you were once soooo happy. those moments you'll never forget.. those feelings you just crave for.... those people that was once part of your life..

and now..

you just find yourself alone

Answer 1

Wow. It's like you know me. Like I told you in my message, I've pretty much lost everyone I care about. The only reason I get out of bed in the morning is out of the hope that something better lies ahead of me.

"There's a light at each end of this tunnel,

He shouts,

'Cause you're just as far in as you'll ever be out,

And these mistakes you made,

You'll just make them again,

If you only try turning around"

~2 AM- Anna Nalik

[x]melanieinuyasha

Answer 2

did u just lose some one? Its not about the past its about what u do with ur self now! Make new happy thoughts make new friends... live today like theres no tommorrow!

Answer 3

It doesn't hurt much now because I have made a deal with myself.  I AM going to meet them all on the other side of this mortal world.  Those great people that were once a part of my life are still with me in my heart,  in my memories.  Those moments give me strength,  make me smile (OK I confess,  they do make shed hot hot tears every once in a while),  make me feel so lucky that I'd actually met them,  grateful forever for the role they played in my life.  I was once very HAPPY!!!  I am okay now!  

And Sweetie,  you are never alone if you really truly had them...Believe me!

P.S.  I am sure all these enlightened souls here are going to dub me as 'Emo' too.  Fine,  its actually Fine.  Emo is so much better than unfeeling,  insensitive,  unloved being.

Answer 4

if it hurts you

then dont look back and think about your future

Answer 5

what a emo kid...

Answer 6

no...cause i will always remember all the good times! And now its getting even better! Just look at the next day, as a new start, a fresh beginning, i love life! God takes care for me, and loves me! HE LOVES YOU TOO!

~GOD BLESS

Answer 7

i think that we all shall enjoy life and take on its challenges we only live once

Answer 8

ah NO

Life in that past had plenty of troubles as well as happiness.

I am older and wiser and have almost learned to be happy at what ever age I am or what ever circumstances I am in.

I like being alone at times.

Being alone is your choice. It sounds like you need to revamp your life. There are pages turned and new chapters to be written.

New experiences and new and different friends.

I have less friends now, but it is because I want quality , I don't need quanity

Answer 9

you learn from your past. Time heals wall wounds. I learned that a long time ago.

Answer 10

Yes, it does !

Answer 11

i hate my past because i was alone but now i'm not alone

Answer 12

Wow most of these ppl are either terribly funny or rude...

I find myself alone looking back at how I was when I was a kid so sweat and innocent and it does hurt.  That hurt is a part of growth as a person imo.  Perhaps your feeling lonely mostly because you are growing faster then your peers?  Look for more people like you and understand the people who arnt.  Perhaps in time you will find youself back to where you started.

Answer 13

It's tough going in the dating world right now...  Just hang in there!  Try to stay positive.  Don't settle just because you are lonely.  Mr. Right will come a long when you least expect him.  Just be honest and true to you and what you are looking for in a person.  Look around your community and find out what kind of activities are there and have fun!  Just because you are single doesn't mean you have to be alone!  The best way to find someone is through other people...  Enjoy yourself.  I know you are ready for a relationship, but sometimes you just have to wait until a good thing comes along!  Just remember -you are going to have to date a lot of people to find Mr. Right!  Good Luck!

Answer 14

You only are what you believe you are. Be optimistic. There is more than pain,

Answer 15

If an apple tree bares fruit. and you pick it and ate it and digested it and finally send it to the toilet.  Did the apple gone to waste? No.  Because you assimilated some of the apple to be part of your body.

If the Apple was not eaten and got rotten, was it wasted?  No, because somewhere something will bound to assimilate it and be part of their body.  

Memories, even if forgotten are never totally lost because it have been part of you growth.  It spiced up your life to make sense out of senseless ideas.  To comprehend what is incomprehensible.  Being alone is just in the mind.  And the mind can be trained to be full and empty and empty and full, much like to have nothing and have everything.

Answer 16

I feel the opposite. My past didn't hold much happiness for me. I'm in a much better place now.

Answer 17

Yes, i always think like that and i cry a little but i think about my new friends and the friends i have yet to meet and i feel a little happier. so i try to think more of the greater future and tell myself i can live a better future. i have people to help me through the troubled times and so do you so think about a better future and how great it will be. Those feeling of the past you can also have now and later in life so what i am trying to say is live more in the present and future and think less of the past if it hurts so much and you are not alone many people are still part of your life and those people love you. So don't say that you are alone you need to say that "i have people that love me and that make me feel happy and alive." so don't be all down on yourself feel happy to be alive on this wonderful world we live on. And if after this you still feel lonely then i promise you i am happy you are on this Earth and i will keep you in my prayers. so keep smiling everyday and make everyday more beautiful.

Answer 18

ouch way to bring back hard memories i've spent years trying to get over

Answer 19

you cant think about the past cheer up be a better emo. go to some raves and thizz :))