Doesn't this mean she lost her virginity?

Question

My friend came up to me and told me she thinks she's pregnant. I was a little surprised because she always used to tell me she wouldn't have s*x before marriage. She said, "relax, I'm still a virgin, there's ways of getting pregnant without losing your virginity." She told me his thing didn't go in her but while they were both butt-naked she thinks his sperm 'seeped' in...

Answer 1

Wow, if she's still a virgin then child birth will be excruciating.

The only way that I could possibly think of is if he put the tip right up to her hole when he was exploding. A person would only do that if they were stupid though.

Personally, if she's pregnant, then it would be my guess that she had s*x. Perhaps he slipped partially into her...but she isnt calling it s*x because she didnt feel it or it didnt go all the way in and "pop her cherry".

But if she's playing with her guy butt naked, then she'll be losing her viriginity in no time. Relationships that go that far are likely to hit the next base sooner rather than later...meaning it's not really behaviour of a girl who's waiting for marriage.

Answer 2

Hmm. The emphasis of this question should really lie in being concerned that your friend is having unsafe s*x. And since you sound a bit young (I'll take a guess at 13), I imagine s*x is being had that isn't the penal-vaginal kind. It is okay to say p***s, doncha know.

That being said, it is very difficult to get pregnant if "maybe, kinda, sorta, his sperm seeped in". Don't get me wrong, it can totally happen.

Does she have periods? Has she skipped one? She needs to talk to her parents or the school nurse. It is a very scary thing indeed to fear being pregnant. Your friend also need to practice safe s*x next time. He must wear a condom! Must must must!

Answer 3

you don't have to have s*x to become pregnant. If he came anywhere near her v****a, there is a slight possibility that she would get pregnant.

Answer 4

if shes only had her period twice then maybe its more she needs to check with a doctor. Its possible she is but i doubt it.

Answer 5

there are ways to get pregnant with out having intercourse.. but it's very unlikely that she is.

Answer 6

You can't get pregnant unless you have s*x (or unless you are the Virgin Mary and bearing the son of god)

Answer 7

Yeah if she thinks she might be pregnant she isnt a virgin anymore