My best friend is staying with my husband and I. We were married back in April but have lived together for a while. Anyways, My mom says it will ruin our marriage if we let a friend stay with us (ive heard this from others too) but if my hubby and I are on the same page about letting her stay ...is that ok? Also I feel she's getting ripped off..she pays 830 dollars a month on rent, she's staying with us until her ex boyfriend leaves her apartment. He was supposed to be out today but isn't and he lost his job. He lives there rent free while she pays and stays with us (its not OUR rent issue i'm worried about). She said she feels she just can't kick him out because of his children (not their children, but his from a previous marriage). She said she wouldn't be able to live with herself if she kicked him out...then she comes to me (and hubby) and cries about how big of a heart she has and she wished she didn't have it. I told her she needed to get him out of her apartment cause he's living there for free...that didn't go over too well. I feel bad and i'm there for her (hence why she's staying with us) but I feel like I can't kick her out so she goes back to that apartment with her ex.
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