Don't know what to do?!?!?

Question

Me and my best friend from uni have had a lot of problems recently. I fell in love with her a while back while she was in love with someone else but she kept stringing me along making me think something ws going to happen between us 2 i.e. a relationship. we would make out a lot and flirt and things got really intense. however even though her girlfriend keeps messin her around, shes gone back to her again. but this time its different because i went on holiday, and they must of got back together while i was away. when i got back she was off with me and when i asked why - her answer was that she got used to me not being there nd life went on without me, and her life was much easier without me. This totally hurt me, she said things like she was offended that i expected her to speak 2 me as normal after my holiday :S What kind of friend would say any of those things? Everyone is telling me to cut her out of my life because of the damage she has done but i feel like somehow i need to get justice from this situation. What do i do?

Thanks

Answer 1

  Let her go -  

Answer 2

Do yourself a favor and cut her out of your life. Otherwise, you'll keep hurting yourself.

Answer 3

Wow, she sounds like she never really could figure out what she wanted. Anyways, I know that what you're going through is really hard; its like you don't really want that person out of your life, but deep down you know that you have to. And in this situation, I think that it is best that you do your best to forget about her. I know that it is MUCH easier said than done...but its what you need to do. I was in a relationship a bit similar to that, and after a while, I realized that the other person was simply toxic, and in order to regain any semblance of sanity, I needed to cut her out of my life. So, I deleted her number from my phone, put away any pictures we had together, and did my best to forget her. With time, I was feeling better. I hope that you can do the same.

Good luck and don't forget that time heals all wounds.