Don't you just wanna look perfect sometimes?

Question

I do ALL the time. And I just can't seem to. . . ya feel that way? I not what in the world are you doing? Here's the thing:

I feel fat - in reality, I'm only about 5-10 pounds from perfect, it's just so hard to get there.

I'm not tan enough - it's getting winter and I don't like the tanning bed. I don't look good without a tan.

My hair is too wavy and puffy. When I straighten it, sometimes it comes out perfect and beautiful becuase I do have volume. But more than half the time that volume turns to "puffy".

I feel so bad about myself, what do I do?!! Help me!!

Answer 1

If you tell yourself your fat it wont make you any skinnier. Negative energy makes you put on weight because your thoughts are telling you ur fat. Tell your self your beautiful no matter what any1 thinks. And also for your hair try got 2b hair styling product its very good, i have the exact same hair type as you and i use it. Enjoyy!

Answer 2

No one looks perfect.

Answer 3

You should drop a tan and puffy 5-10 pound winter SHlT on/in a plate/bowl and massage vigorously on your fat regions. Your fat outer shell will be destroyed by the purifier that is oh so lumpy a soft. Then answer this question...

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Answer 4

well...nobodys perfect and wats on the inside matters more then wats on the outside even if u were ahoundred pounds over perfect.

im super pale and stuff and pales kinda in so dont worry bout it.

use frizz control or get ur hair done by a perfessional person they can like do this special thing that straightins ur hair really well its called cemically straightin.people should like u for the inside not out.i hope i made u feel better bout urself.:)

Answer 5

my hair was like that too so i baught mousse and im like snow white so i baught a bronzer but light skin is really pretty and really popular right now because nobody wants skin cancer but about the weight id just eat helthy and exersize alot

Answer 6

"If you care to much about what people think of you, you'll never get anywhere in life" ~Neon Genesis Evangelion.

I'll be honest, if you think your fine. Then you are

If you think your not fine, then your not.

Simply Put.

Answer 7

im perfect, well at least i think so, thats all that matters. same for u, ur perfect the way u r. who cares if ur not tan enough or have the perfect body as long as ur happy. if u want to improve urself just workout or sumthin, works for me. good luck and i hope u realize that ur the way u r for a reason, u know, god made everyone unique.

Answer 8

i can completely understand what you're saying. everyone has their good days and bad days..

you really need to concentrate on what you really do like about yourself and use that to help your self-esteem and strive to make yourself more like how you want to be.

if you feel overweight then try to start working out or something. even if you just do pilates or something 2-3 times a week you'll still feel better about yourself than if you're doing nothing

i'm really pale too. i go to tanning beds sometimes when i start getting really white but you can use tanning lotions. a lot of them do actually really work. i've tried the jergens and it works. you just can't use it everyday or you start looking like yellow or orange so just do it every other day.

look around to try to find some product for your hair so that it won't go pouffy. you'll probably have to try a couple different ones to see what really works. or go to a salon and see what they say about it and what they can recommend.

good luck! remember, im sure you are beautiful you're just being hard on yourself so focus on the good!!

Answer 9

idk wat u look like...but i can tell that ur really low on self confidence...u need to work with wat u have & build up self confidence & self esteem...nobody's perfect

Answer 10

stop focusing on the bad things that probably aren't true.

there are NO perfect people on this earth.

not even models/actresses.

when you look in the mirror focus on the you best features.

Answer 11

i think everyone, especially girls would like to be perfect

but no one is, not even angelina jolie haha

Answer 12

Realize that there is more to life than the way you look.  

Answer 13

a real girl isnt perfect

a perfect girl isnt real

Answer 14

There's nothing wrong with trying to be perfect, but when it becomes an obsession and makes you unhappy all the time, it becomes a huge problem. Figure out what you like about yourself and focus on that rather than any flaws.