Dont know what to do or think! Please help me :'(?

Question

my bf writes this kind of stuff to me "hay babe i was on tonight for a while lol hmmm i misss u so so so so much right now just wish i cud kisss u hard hmmm newyas baby have a day keeep safe i hope that loseer kyl or watev isnt stilll annoying u love u baby XOPxOOXOxOxOXOXOXOX " or how he wants to cry cause I am not there or how he loves me so much it hurts just all this goody goody feel good stuff. I talked to one of his friends and this is what she said" so do you trust him?" I asked why and she said "I am not saying anything..he is a good guy" I was like "what does he cheat" she was like "ya he has to his exs and stuff alot" and I have known forl ike 3 weeks that he cheated on his ex gf with not one or two but 3 different women.. I don't know if it is stubborn and stupid to think he wont do it to me cause he is just so d**n infatuated and in love with me but it is how I want to think, any alternative to the truth of it ya know? I don't know what to do :'( I don't know what to think or say ...

Answer 1

ok, I dont know how old you are but here's a crash course on guys, they'll say and do anything they have to do to sleep with you. and once you do, they'll move onto the next girl. not all guys, but they say past behavior predicts future behavior. i would just not get too attached to this guy, he might not be around long. tell him if you're uncomfortable with how he talks and say you dont want to get too serious too fast.  

Answer 2

From my experience, men will tell you anything you wanna hear. I wouldn't trust a guy like that. He's so friendly, it seems like bs.

Answer 3

Girls need to stop listening to all the lovey dovey talk and buying every bit of BS that comes out of their mouth!  It means nothing when their actions don't match what they say.  He's treating you the way you're allowing him to treat you.  As much as you want to believe it sweety, he's not in love with you!  You're a toy to him and he plays with you when it's convenient for him and ignores you when it's not, or when he has something or someone else to do!

You DO know what to do.....you just need to quit thinking about it and do it!