Dont wanna be obssesed with the zodaic signs. but unable to succeed?

Question

I believe in astrology and characteristics of the zodiacs but it is totally terrible, all your character is pre-determined as you were born. For instance i want to have the some characteristic of the the some other sign but i can't ,cose my zodiac sign(my sun and rising are the same) have some certain attributes that i cant pass and go beyond,in other words it restricts me , i tried hard to change myself but it went for a short certain time cose i felt my sign dominating me and my will to be another man. Unfortunatelly i and noone off- course will be able change his pre-determined zodiac charcteristics. please suggest sth to do

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Finally someone who can appreciate variety, the squares and oppositions, they are what pushes us to the edge.

do you have a fixed sign on your sun and asc?

maybe you can post your whole chart or aspect

Answer 3

Astrology determines a personality and life potential at birth... it doesn't set any part of you in stone. It will encourage you to have certain tendencies and express yourself in certain ways. Nothing you have is truly negative - nothing you have should you try to change. It is your karmic life lesson in this life to accept who you are and what you've been given, and use your FREE WILL and EXPERIENCE to bring out the positive side of your astrologically determined potential. Everything has a positive side - even difficult aspects will help you learn and grow.

And, about the incompatibility of you and your girlfriend - once again, I believe that you can make anything work. Tough aspects between your charts can help you learn from eachother. They can be turned into tough aspects that exist to help you both better understand yoruselves and eachother, and they can be worked around. I'm not saying you should get back together with her, but you should try to always take away something positive from everything you do... you have to learn and grow from your experiences.

Astrology shouldn't make you feel hopeless... it should make you feel hopeful. You can be anything you want to be, really... you just have to shape yourself through the cards you've been dealt in this life - work with them, not against them!

Answer 4

I just want to point out that not ALL of your character is pre-determined. True astrologers will tell you that. Familiarise yourself with the nature/nurture theory. We're given certain traits, but life experiences make each and every one of us unique.

Answer 5

its time now, that u should come out of astrology. ican uderstand that its difficult but keep trying until u suceed. u can start by having some ambitition or u watch some interesting dreams.then,start to think,how u wud reach to ur goals. afterthis it wud become easy 4 u to change urself. and always remember that its not astrology that runs this world.there is a supreme power up there who rules this world.believe in him and urself& he wud help u.i m piscean. but i am also aware of thier weak points.so,nowi have changed myself a lot. wish the samething 4 u. all the best.