Dose this guy like me?

Question

ok theirs this guy hes in 11th and im in 9th.He rides my buss and goffs offs alot when im near him, he also says dirty jokes to me. The real proublem is that i went out with his brother so i really dont no if he isn't asking me out because of that.

I like him alot and i dont no if he likes me. im also afraid to ask him out because of the age diffrence. Help!!!

Answer 1

Most likely he's been friendly to you because you went out with his brother. So he feels comfortable telling you dirty jokes. At this point, doesn't sound like he's interested in dating you or doesn't know you have an interest in him. To try and find out, talk to him about other things besides dirty jokes, such as something you really like to do or something you enjoy doing. Make sure you show him how happy you are to be in his presence.

He may get those hints, but there is one thing to be careful of, he might not be interested in you because you dated his brother and is in 9th grade...Sometimes boys tend to look at 11th and 12 grade girls at that age. Don't get down if this happens, I'm sure you will find someone who will like you!

Answer 2

No.

Answer 3

Time will tell. The more you see him, i think you will become more comfortable and then things will eventually fall into place.

Answer 4

you will have to wait and see.

he could be flirting or mabey he is just mesing with youu.

Answer 5

that might ruin the relationship between the two brothers before u make ur move u should talk to ur ex but if u really like him u might as well go for it but u should be ready if there are alot of problems :D

Answer 6

ok, the age difference is the last thing you should be worried about.

you went out with his brother, in this case even if he liked you, you have to make sure his brother is ok with both of you going out. i just say this because imagine if your ex liked your sister? yeah, it is horrible.

but since you don't know if he likes you, the best thing to do is tell him you like him.

btw in my opinion, if anyone is gonna ask anyone out it should be him.

but if you want to do it, make sure you know he does like you

Answer 7

well your probably right he isnt asking you out because his brother went out with you, and if he asked you out it would crush his brothers heart, seriously girl think about imagine if you went out with this kid, and then you broke up and then you find out your sister was dating him you would be so upset.. idk i would talk to him about it, i mean you can't fight love.  OR he doesn't like you in that way and hes just being a guy and being friendly.

Answer 8

Do your homework and forget about older guys. They just want s*x!!!!

Answer 9

well maybe and maybe not, because u didnt give alot of information. he could have heard alot of things about u from his brother so he just comfortable around u.  

Answer 10

When i was in 11th i dated a 9th grader so the age means nothing. Its only 2 years. Yea he may like you

Answer 11

lol i do THE SAME THING to this girl on the busss but i kinda likek the girl but just dont play hard to get cuz its alwasy avious and its really annoying but dont put ur self out there like a hoe just keep it simple but notice able and rite him a note or something

Answer 12

First, don't be scared to ask because of the age difference.  2 years difference is common.

Instead of asking him out on an actual "date".  Plan some sort of activity with a group of mutual friends and ask him to come.  You'll have a better idea if he likes you since it's outside of school and you won't have any added pressure since it's not really a date.

Answer 13

You sound more mature than him, despite the age difference....Its up to him to come to you......