Double baby shower question

Question

A friend is throwing me and another girl a double baby shower. I know to get a gift for the hostess but I was wondering do I get a gift for the other pregnant girl as well? I'm having a girl and she's having a boy. I don't mind getting her a gift. I would just feel weird if I got her gift and she didn't get me one...I don't want her to feel bad.

Answer 1

I'd definitely get her one. Who cares if she doesn't get you one? You'll feel better about yourself in the end. Get her something simple like a couple packs of diapers and some wipes if you're worried about spending too much.

Answer 2

Just get her a gift.  If she doesn't have one for you and she feels bad, assure her that it's nothing to worry about and you weren't expecting a gift from her.  

Answer 3

'I would just feel weird if I got her gift and she didn't get me one...I don't want her to feel bad.'

You'd feel worse if she got you a gift and you didn't get her one.

Just get her baby boy an outfit; she can never have too many clothes for the baby! And it will be fun shopping for a boy since I'm sure you've done a lot of shopping for your girl.

Don't worry about her feeling bad if she doesn't get you something, it's common sense to get the other girl a gift since you'll also be attending her shower while she's attending yours .. I'm sure she'll get you something. If she doesn't, then that's her problem, not yours.

Answer 4

I would.  I had a double baby shower and I got her something and she got me something.