Drama queen or would you feel the same as me? ?

Question

I sent my guy a message this morning that said “good morning t.g.i.f. baby, how are you? I hope your day is great. Miss you, xoxo.”

He responded back in a few minutes and said: “good morning happy Friday to you, I miss myself too, xoxo.” I guess he may have been trying to be funny, but it just made my feel a little down and a bit irritated like okay, he is joking because he doesn’t miss me back even though we haven’t seen each other in about 2 months and he never says he misses me. Am I being too sensitive or would this response make you feel this way as well?

Answer 1

It was just a flip remark meant to be funny. You are too sensitive. I'm sure when he was texting, he was smiling thinking you would enjoy the joke as much as he did.

Answer 2

Personally....I would just send him another message saying, "It's good that you miss yourself, cause then we have something in common, but why are you missing yourself? Is something wrong?" Hope I helped.

Answer 3

Uh...i think you are over reacting. Dont comment him any more & then he will start missing you.

Answer 4

um a little, have you tried talking to him about it and just asking if he miss you, i am sure he do

joking about it all makes it easier though, many guys been told to suck it up and act like a big boy from early on so they aint the best always in displaying what they feel

take the intiative, take control, and demand opinions, and you can be sure they are there

first time i tried to discuss weddings with bf i got a, whatever made me happy it was the brides day...after making it perfectly clear not so he stoped saying that and when we talk about it and our future he readily offer up his opinion and actualy have a lot to contribute with...you just have to show them that you will accept their involvement, and wont think its negative that they express themself emotionaly...that they dont have to be "big boys"

Answer 5

next time you should say so you don't miss me? or just don't say miss you

and he might be cheating

Answer 6

Why haven't you seen each other in 2 months?  I wouldn't send him anymore texts and see if he even notices.  If you don't ever hear from him again you will know he doesn't miss you.

Answer 7

From My Point Of View, I Don't See That As Over Exaggerating In The Slightest, Comments Like That Are Most Likely Going To Make You Feel As If You've Been Rejected, But I'm Sure He Didn't Mean It To Come Across Like That, Maybe Just Text Him Back And Ask Him What He Meant By It And If He Still Feels Strong About You, Maybe He Was Just Joking And Didn't Expect You To Take It That Way. =]

I Hope This Has Helped, Best Of Luck =]

Answer 8

it happeneds to me 2...its just a guyish joke but u should tell him that u wanna feel missed....you wanna know he cares....its just the way some guys are dont get caught up about it

Answer 9

That response, in and of itself, wouldn't depress me.  

But you said you've been apart for two months and he never says he misses you.  Perhaps you should just ask him.  

Text him and say, "You know how much I miss you, because I say it a lot.  Do you miss me?  I'm sure you do because I know you care for me, but I'd just like to know, and to hear it once in awhile, too.  And P.S.:  you're cute when you miss yourself!"

Light hearted but inquisitive.

Good luck!