Dream, dead step father?

Question

my step dad died when i was 8...almost 10 years ago..but i thought of him as by real dad..i had a dream that i was walking in grociery store at night and i passed by one of the isles and he was standing there shopping, smiling as i passed..it was in like slow motion...scary..and then i saw him talking to another woman, flirting, then he got in the car with me and my uncle and i called him a dork? i never got to say goodbye..at the hospital they said we could say our goodbyes, but i was too scared to go in.i feel bad now.

he died from overdose.

Answer 1

i think that he wanted to see you for one last time because he loved you and he misses you and i think that he wanted to say goodbye to you...just always remember that he will be there for you no matter what...just look up and he will be there smiling back at you...

Answer 2

awww honey i'm sorry.  But dont feel bad about not saying goodbye to him, he knows you loved him.  you were young, i'm sure he could understand that it would be too scary for you and not being able to say goodbye shows even more that you loved him so much that you couldnt bear to see him go. sometimes we dream about people we miss because they're in our mind, your guilt probably drove you to dream about him.