Dream about ex girlfriend! please help?

Question

I have been married about 8 months, and dated my wife for about 3 years. Before that I dated a girl that I was in love with, and she broke up with me. But I still loved her. I found a new

girl, the one I'm married to now. But about every 3-6 months I have a dream about her and it's usually me going back to her, and leaving my wife for her. I haven't seen my ex in like 2-3 years.

WHY do I continually have these dreams about her. I wake up and almost miss her.

Please help.

Yes! She was my first love. And a piece of me does still care for her. She ended the relationship, I didn't. But I love my wife. And it hurts her that I have these dreams.

Any ideas.....??

Answer 1

You're a wannabe polygamist. Inside.

Answer 2

Because you still love her. Go to a therapist if it hurts her that bad. But its just a dream, it doesnt matter much as it could mean anything. People have dreams about their ex's all the time. It doesnt matter much as you love her also.

Answer 3

You really answered your own question. You still love your ex and miss her. Just because you are not going to be with her doesn't mean you won't miss her. If you ask most people, they will tell you that they never "got over" their first loves. Hopefully, as time goes on, you will think and dream of her less but you will keep a tiny part of her in your thoughts. Just keep loving your wife and go on with the life you have with her. You really appear to care about your wife, so just keep doing what your doing and stay busy being happy with your wife. Good luck.