Dream about my mom?

Question

My mom died in December of 2003 and since she passed, I've had multiple dreams that she is still alive. Since my dad has remarried. In one dream, it's my mom's birthday and my dad leaves his wife to take my mom out for her birthday. What could this mean?? (my mom was living in another house at the time)

The other dream that I had was about me and my relationship. My husband is black and my dad doesn't approve. My mom died before she could meet him. In my dream, I am on a hospital bed and there are lots of people around me but my husband isn't there. My mom comes to me and she is invisible to everyone else and says she'll take my spot in the bed so I can go spend my last day w/ my husband. I have an out of body experience where I see me, but my mom's soul is in me (strange). I spend the day w/ my husband and return. My mom says to me when I return to do what I want and what makes me happy.

So.. out of body experience? switching souls?? the dead is alive..strange..what do u think??

Answer 1

I think your second dream is about going to your death bed worrying about others disapproval. Your mom might actually be you in this dream. The part of you that is parenting yourself. She wants you to give up your attachment to how others feel and what they think and do what makes you happy.  

The first dream sounds a lot like you are still grieving the loss of your mom. Since your dad remarried it naturally brings up old feelings of loss. It's typical for things to resurface during life changes. It'd be a lot nicer if he was taking your mom out instead of his new wife, huh? I think a new wife brings up the feelings that she's never coming back. Not that you ever thought she would, but you know..the finality. I'm sorry for your loss. Those dreams must really throw you when you have them and make you miss her even more.

Answer 2

You are a very privilege person ; to have the visit of your mother ; plus she is talking to you . In your dream ; your mother is telling you this ; Your father have not forget that I was his wife and the mother of his children ; and I do not have any resentment against your father for getting remarried ; and your second dream ;; Well its clear ; she does approved your marriage with a black man ; plus she is giving the chance to be with him for old day