Dream of my dead parents they r always fighting with me mom alway played 2side aginst midle me n brothr?

Question

growing up mom always played 2sides against middle with family friends but istill loved her isnow deceased n dreaming my parents fighting with me n defending myself call them liars , i actually wake up myx from his room from yelling , its happening more now then ever..why cant i have a good dream of them i am depressed by dreams n continues into my real life day why r they mad when i did everything for everyone and got really screwed by own children adults n my only brother n his family after giving them thousands 2 set them up when moved here 2 florida n setting up my nephew n son who still stood in ny with money n place 2 live all paid by me n now all turned against me..why r parents coming in dreams fighting with me n my dad relatives that passed who always mistreated me when i was a kid cause my dad was an alcoholic, gambler n use to borrow money frm them n they thought i was bad seed cause of him rep n moms rep..why cant my parents come in my dreams ia loving way not abusivegrowing up mom always played 2sides against middle with family friends but istill loved her isnow deceased n dreaming my parents fighting with me n defending myself call them liars , i actually wake up myx from his room from yelling , its happening more now then ever..why cant i have a good dream of them i am depressed by dreams n continues into my real life day why r they mad when i did everything for everyone and got really screwed by own children adults n my only brother n his family after giving them thousands 2 set them up when moved here 2 florida n setting up my nephew n son who still stood in ny with money n place 2 live all paid by me n now all turned against me..why r parents coming in dreams fighting with me n my dad relatives that passed who always mistreated me when i was a kid cause my dad was an alcoholic, gambler n use to borrow money frm them n they thought i was bad seed cause of him rep n moms rep..why cant my parents come in my dreams ia loving way not abusive

Answer 1

Go get some zanex bars or some percocets that should put you out for the night you wont even dream sorry for your loss or when there fighting in your dream try to jump into there fighting and tell them to stop fighting  

Answer 2

  ONLY YOU can make the decision to TAKE away the horrors you faced .  Only then will the ghastly dream visits quit.  

YOU matter, so make the effort !   No one else has the power to work through or eliminate the problem.  Heres what I did with VERY similar situation.

While fully AWAKE, this evening I want YOU to decide to forgive the people that have wronged you.  YOU can NEVER change what was already done to you, but YOU can choose to not let it ruin your current and future life.   Admit the pain, cry about it (again) then KNOW that prayer for peace will help.