Dream of something looking like almost raping?

Question

Sorry for the inprecise question but I didn't know how to say it. So I had a dream where I was in some kind of big luxuous hotel. It was in downtown, during the night and I think it was raining. It was overcrowded. I remember a woman in the 30-40s and she told me to go in her room. I entered the room and the lights weren't on, so it was dark. I was lying on a bed waiting. And then the door opened and I saw a figure which wasn't the woman's figure, but of a man that I have already seen in many other nightmares and was scary. This is where the dream ended, with a feeling of fear I think. I don't remember much of the dream but I think that women wanted to have s*x because last night I saw a movie where a L*****n women about the same age wanted to have intimate relationship with another women in a hotel. But I'm a boy and she wasn't appealing, and I'm 14 so it's strange. But it was the man who entered... Don't say I'm g*y or attracted to old women, because it has nothing to do with it.

Answer 1

Dreams can mean anything.

Some dreams are just that...dreams or an outlet of a thought or something you watched in a movie.

Dream interpretations are strange if you go by the books.  A pillow in a dream could mean a sense of being smothered.  A cloud could mean unclear thoughts.  A rock could mean a stumbling block in your thought process.  I would never go by someone else's interpretation of my dreams.  How could they possibly know what I'm thinking unless I tell them.

I wouldnt' worry about it.  You're 14 and a young guy.  s*x is going to be on your mind allot for the next 10 to 60 years.  Enjoy it while it lasts, but always keep in mind s*x is a learning experience and should be handled with safety, trust, and mutual consent.

In the meantime, write the dreams down in a diary or journal every morning before you leave your bed just to get the thoughts out of your head and on paper.  It gives some people a sense of relief.

Answer 2

what was the q? anyway. it seems an unreal dream to me . do not pay attention to it.

Answer 3

You feel tricked or uncertain due to the actions of an older woman.  It could be a family member or friend.  The scary man is something coming up to the surface from the unconscious.  I highly recommend journaling your dreams and looking for recurring themes.

Sarita