Dreaming of my Dead Best friend/Ex Girlfriend.?

Question

My Ex/Best Friend died 6 months ago from Heroin Overdose. She was 16. Few days after she died I had a dream where I had found her and she hugged me and kissed me , said she missed and loved me. I have had other dreams since that we hang out walking around just having a good time. Only a few dreams though , like once a month.

Then the otherday, I had a dream where I knew she was supposed to be dead, and she did too. I was confused , i thought..well..i must be in the past or dreaming. And we just hugged and I told her, "well you promise to contact me through dreams." And she said "yes, you will know when I am. "

This other dream which was interesting...We were in a room, and she hugged me and said "you never got over me did you?" and I said , no. And she kissed me.

Which is true. I just never told her.

You think shes contacting me? I do think of her everyday. Sometimes im not sure if its wishful dreaming or her actually contacting me.

Answer 1

well i personaly am a very spiritual person. so yea i believe shes trying to contact you through your dreams, maybe she hasnt gotten over you, and seeing you in your dreams helps her cope with the fact that she lost you and cant have you again b/c of her death.  be thankful. b/c situations such as this are beautiful things.

Answer 2

probably... idk really but maybe...

Answer 3

This situation is what you believe it is! if you never got over her and think thats whats going on...well, anythings possible!

Answer 4

WOW.  You do miss her.  and just to tell you.. these dreams maybe a sign that you had more feelings.. stronger feelings than you think.  She wants to keep in contact with you.. she doesn't want to scare you and dreams are a way of the mind expressing the imaginations that can't be expressed in reality.  I mean i don't think she wants to scare you by like floating a book.. but nightmares are scary while dreams are sweet.  so she wants to contact you through dreams because she wants you to remember her through something nice and she's letting you know that she cares for you.  hope i helped!

Answer 5

It is wishful thinking. You should have told her how much you liked her before . Sorry to tell you this way but the same thing happened to me.