Dreams about boyfriend cheating?

Question

I've had about 5 dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me. I know he is faithful, because frankly we always hang out together. We've been together for 2 years.

The dreams consist of he and I hanging out together, then he disappears, and i find him and he's talking to another girl. When I say something, he breaks up with me and laughs at me.

I had one last night and I woke up crying and sweating really bad. In the dream, we were in Canada(he is currently in canada driving truck... cdl driver), and we were buying a house. We were at the store, and he saw some girl he knew. He invited her back to our house. I was doing something in the house, and I look up and he's hugging her, like a boyfriend would hug a girlfriend, and I scoffed. He told me to get over it. So then he pulls me into a room and gives me this long speech about why we need to break up.

Most of the girls are brunettes, because he likes brunettes. The girl in the most recent dream, had sandy blonde hair, and had tattoos on her arm. I know he likes tattoos.

I know these shouldn't bother me, because I know dreams are just dreams, but they bother me so much. All I can do after the dreams is feel terribly insecure with the way I look. I feel fat, and I feel like I'm not good enough.

Please help guys! No non-serious answers or I will report you!

Answer 1

I think that your worried that in the future he will cheat on you.

It's what every couple thinks. So you stress about that alot which makes your brian take in that stress and makes you image and over dramatic about that stuff.

Answer 2

I'm pretty sure it is normal to have these dreams! I mean think about it, we all have dreams about the things in life we care about, obviously in your situation you love your boyfriend very much!

I used to have dreams like that as well when I was with my girlfriend! But when you dream it is just your brain getting rid of useless information, that's what my professor said in  Psychology anyway! So I don't think you have anything to worry about!

Now if you want to not have these dreams I suggest you talk to a professional, or try Lucid Dreaming!

Does that sort of answer your question? I hope so...

Answer 3

I would just say it shows insecurities in your relationship. Like you are afraid of that really happening.  I have had a few dreams like that about my husband so I know how upsetting they are.  Maybe you are just afraid of being abandoned.  On the other hand, if things in your relationship are REALLY good maybe it is the anxiety of waiting for something bad to happen.  No matter what the reason, I don't think there's anything you can do to stop these dreams.  Just try to remember that they're only dreams and not to let them effect your life.