Dreams of cheating sexually on my bf.. who I love with all that I have?

Question

I am currently dating a wonderful man. We love each other very much and we have a great relationship and we talk about getting marraige in the future.

I went out of town for 2wks and then 3days later he had to go out of town for 3wks so we havnt been able to spend any time together.

I keep on having really sexual dreams about other men. I dream of having s*x with ex bfs, past hook-ups, and even guys I dont know! And its the kind of dream that "feels" real if u know what I mean.

The thing is I would NEVER cheat on my bf! I love him so much and I would never do anything to jepordize our relationship.. whats the deal?

if it helps at all, yes my bf and I are sexually active. When we see each other we have s*x at least 2 or 3times that day.

Any ideas?

Answer 1

The same thing has been happening to me lately. I'm madly in love with my boyfriend and we're currently engaged. But I've been having dreams of my past relationships, people I know, people I don't know. It's been pretty hectic and it's made me wonder why.

I think the reason why is that you're feeling sexually frustrated lately when you're both unable to spend much time together. It's your body's reaction to what attracts you sexually. Because of that, you have dreams of whatever you're attracted to.

So it's just like if a guy is madly in love with you and checks out another girl in front of you. It's just what he's attracted to. It could just be a phase of sexual frustration. After spending quite a lot of "special" time together, he should be able to invade those dreams as well.

Hope that helps!

Answer 2

It's because you're bored of the same over and over again. try different positions?

Answer 3

when you dream you dream in symbols. these symbols are created in the sub-conscious to help us deal with problems in our lives to help us deal with problems that we can't or won't deal with in the awake state. now that that is out of the way lets deal with your dreams. when you dream you are not responsible for what you dream,unless you are having lucid dreams ,which you are not. do you have these type of dreams when your boyfriend is in town and you are having a s*x life with him??? if not, i would not worry too much about it. we all have these type of dreams in our lives. i have been married for 33 years to the same man and every once in awhile i have these type of dreams.  i would not get upset about them at all. you are normal you are just missing your boyfriend and the s*x that you both enjoy.

Answer 4

Other people in your dream are other aspects of your own feelings. As you said you haven't been able to spend time with him, and women do put emotions on s*x so, it just means your lonely and you miss your boyfriend.