Dreams....terrible dreams?

Question

I am 23 yrs old and engaged to my high school sweetheart. We are scheduled to get married September 13, 2008. Since we have been engaged (Oct. 8th, 2007) I have been having horrible dreams and day dreams and awful fears that my fiance is going to die I start crying and shaking and just get really emotional.I haven't said anything to him about it because I don't know what he is going to think and I certainly don't want to scare him..Can anyone help me figure out why this is happening to me?

Answer 1

You may have anxiety about wedding or marriage. Projecting him leaving your or going to die basically symbolize things you are unwilling to give up.  

In other words, you are feeling insecure without him. In your subconscious mind, you may try to foresee things have not happened yet.  In other words,  you are giving yourself heads up.  

Due to the fact that you will be entering a new life style.  This anxiety kicks in and dream of something like is not unusual.  Do not let this become a prediction of future.  After all, we do not know what is going to happen to us.  only God knows.  We do not know foresee the future based on our dreams.

Answer 2

You're probably just trippin'.  Even if you are having some type of a prophetic vision, the chances of this being the case are so slim, that this possibility shouldn't even be entertained.  The chances of him dying are no more than the chances of anyone else and you're just worrying too much for whatever reason.  The sooner you convince yourself of this, the better.

Answer 3

Maybe you are just afraid to get married or nervous.  I always had something like that but I am only a teenager.  I always had dreams of one of my family members dieing and I will get all emotional and depressed.  But that was like 3 years ago.  But my grandmother died about 7 months ago and then I did get emotional and depressed and I still am. Whatever happens, happens and you have no control over that.  Just think everything happens for a reason. I am not saying anything will happen.  Just relax and spend all of your time with him as you can.  Good Luck!!