Dreamt about my ex.?

Question

I just had a slightly ridiculous dream about my ex. Took place today actually. Back when we still used to talk, I think he told me he was going to go visit his parents this week. And my new boyfriend is supposed to see me later tonight. So, I basically dreamt that when he went to go see his parents, he invited me to come with him... and I decided that since my boyfriend won't be here til later, I could make it. So I go, and he and I end up hugging on the couch. Then he leaves the room and his parents tell me he's in another relationship but "not married and you still have a chance". And I totally forgot that I was in a relationship too. I just got upset and screamed "Well why the h**l am I here then?!" and just stromed out. Ugh. That's so wrong because I love my boyfriend... but I can't seem to forget. It depresses the c**p out of me.

Answer 1

Happens to me a lot. And I'm happily married with two boys. I left the other one for very good reasons and never regretted my decision. Yet, I have these dreams very much like yours. I feel the same way when I wake up, too. My explanation for this is this: when I'm in a relationship, I don't hold back... I love like there's no tomorrow. Luckily my pragmatic nature (I'm a Capricorn) allows me to move on and accept what I cannot change. Unfortunately it also backfires, because my sub-conscious mind still didn't catch on to the fact that the other dude is history until now. After all I left him 14 years ago!

Answer 2

I think that part of you still wants to be with your ex. Maybe you should talk to him see how he feels. Or you could just be going through a phase if you are still talking to your ex that could be hard.

Answer 3

Subconscious memories. Forget about it and move on.