Drink and text! Can I regain my dignity here?

Question

I ran into this guy I had a brief encounter with about six years ago recently. We talked for a while and he asked for my number. I gave it to him but didn't expect him to call me. At the time I remember thinking that he wasn't as cute as he used to be. He called me straight away and asked if I was up for some fun. I said no because I was busy. He wrote back two days later and said he couldn't stop thinking about me. We have been sending flirtatious texts back and forth for three months now. He has asked me about about eight times, but hasn't given me any notice so I have not been able to see him because I have had other plans. I thought I would text him and ask what he was doing friday and he sent back not much and that he wanted to see me now. I texted him back and said well can we meet up? NO RESPONSE. So I asked again .... NO RESPONSE! So feeling totally rejected I got totally drunk and sent him a message to say that if he ever wanted me again he has my number! No response! I am so mad with myself for sending that. I am a chronic drink and texter and always regret it! I just wanted to know why he didn't meet me. I feel like I have no dignity now and I am wondering if I should him a text to say I have deleted his number and don't want anymore to do with him! But I really don't want him to know that I care soooo much! Six years ago I was the winner in the relationship, he kept calling me and turning up at my house and I told him I had moved on. This time I am the loser that can't get him out of my head! Sooo do I send him another text or just leave it?

Answer 1

"winner / loser..." If my gf thinks like you.. i might have given 2 punches to her and i might have bite her, 5 times

If you want him, text him. If you like him nothing wrong in messaging or even begging him.

If you don't like, be happy. Be single, Enjoy most happiest/peaceful life.

Answer 2

First off he probably is in a relationship (that's the odd behavior)second it sounds like you need to look at your drinking,you may have a problem.Take care of yourself first then relationships will follow

Answer 3

What goes around comes around...

Yeah, do you hear JT in the background?

Answer 4

Get this winner/looser idea out of your head; it makes you look immature. Emotions are not a game. Stop caring about this guy and the situation. It is not going to get any better and I dont see a healthy relationship being produced out of this. Get over him, whats the point in wasting time thinking about him?

Hope this helps.

Answer 5

I say just leave it. I think he was trying to see if you would do it with him again or not.