Drinking at parties? 15 yrs old?

Question

At most of the parties everyone in my year has nowadays there is alcohol. No way am I supposed to drink my parents are uptight and I hardly ever do anything for myself. I want to go to parties but my dad won't even let me go if he knows there is alcohol and I promise I won't drink. help?

Answer 1

Dont tell them?

Sneak out, say your staying at a mates and have a good night

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Answer 2

your 15 u shouldnt b drinkin anit big n it aint cleaver

Answer 3

Tell your dad there's no alcohol at the party, or lie and say you're round at a friends house or something.

Your parents are trying to look out for you, but you sometimes gotta just go live your life even if they dont agree, because in situations like this they're going to be very unwilling to give in and may not until you're a lot older.  

Answer 4

don't tell him and it's ur life i drink every day go party like i said it's ur life.

Answer 5

He should trust you if you say you won't drink.  But then he was a teenager once and probably knows that he did it behind his parents back!    I know I did. And I know my son does (he's 14), but he doesn't think I know because he doesn't think I was a teenager once!   As long as he doesn't get drunk I'm OK with it. Doesn't help you though.  Sorry.    

Answer 6

Young kids and alcohol can cause soooo much trouble.  Even if you're not drinking, things around you can go very wrong very fast.  Stay sober, avoid the drunks, always have an escape route, never be alone with a guy, always have a cell phone so you can call your parents for rescue.  Good luck.

Answer 7

I'm 15, my parents went through that phase but you have to gain their trust by doing as they ask and coming in on time. Then once they can trust you then they should be more relaxed. They're just looking out for you.

Answer 8

If you don't want to lie, you can just tell him the truth and then promise him that you'll be home every night and when you do get home from the parties, he can breathalize you or something.  But he may also be sort of hestiant because he doesn't want you to be around that sort of environment or atmosphere where people are freely drinking/smoking or whatever, so you can either prove that you're responsible or just tell him you're going ot a party without telling him all the little details.

Answer 9

I'm 15, 16 in 2 weeks and I've been to loads of parties with alcohol. The first party I went to, I was scared c**p that my parents would be mad with me, so I arranged to stay at a mates, so it didn't matter as much. My parents said they had realised that there was gonna be some alcohol and they said they trusted me not to get too smashed and they were cool about it. Stay at a mates if you can.  

Answer 10

you have to ask them to let you go to one party in order to gain their trust. or you can just say youre having a sleepover at your friend's house and then just go to the party with them and then sleep over their house. or say youre going to a two hour movie at eleven.