Driving and this girl called me a b*tch!?

Question

hi. i was try to drive. i do the road. then this girl cut in front of me and she yelled at me honk horn and bump my car and called me a B*tch and other names i can't say. now i am all sad, upset, depressed, nervous, etc. i can't even walk or think straight. what do i do? this is no joke. thank you.

Answer 1

This happens a lot in NYC.

Stupid people calling other people idiot.

A$$ calling other A$$.

etc.

My wife is psychotherapist.  She says that it is a common mental defect they call "projection".

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So don't worry. She was in effect, just announcing that SHE WAS A B!!TCH.

Good Luck...

P.S.  Do not escalate it. It only diminishes you not them. If they bump you, get their plate number and call 911.  That is a SERIOUS crime.

Answer 2

Wow, its amazing how other people don't pay attention to driving when they are trying to do 10 other things at the same time, cut someone off, and then blame the person THEY cut off. Yeah it sucks, been there, done that. But you say she bumped your car? Call the police, did you get her info? As far as calming down, sleep on it, you'll be fine tomorrow.

Answer 3

Just let it go........................

While aggressive driving is an increasing phenomenon in the United States, the chances of being attacked during a road rage-related incident are relatively small. In most cases of road rage, the offended driver harasses the offending driver by using gestures or obscenities, and then the two cars gradually move away from each other.

As the problem receives more attention in the media, drivers are becoming more familiar with how to deal with aggressive drivers. Due to frightening stories about road rage attacks, many drivers in the United States have learned to not respond to hostile drivers. At the same time, law enforcement officials hope the placement of cameras on streets and freeways will help prevent roadside confrontations.

One important thing to remember is that road rage and aggressive driving are not new phenomena. People have always driven aggressively, but the roads were never as congested as they are today. The fact that there are more people driving cars nowadays means that there are more encounters that can potentially turn into hostile situations. In other words, road rage has simply become more prominent as the roads have become more crowded.

Regardless of congestion, road rage and aggressive driving does not have to occur. The factors that pre-dispose such behavior can be modified and drivers can learn to support one another on the road. Another crucial aspect to understand is that incidences of road rage typically involve two frustrated drivers antagonizing each other. In situations where one of the drivers chooses to not escalate the tension, road rage is often avoided.

Answer 4

She is a psycho., if you didn't do anything at all., ^^

Answer 5

Your probably one of those drivers that drive really slow in the fast lane.I get mad too.

Answer 6

If she bumped your car, that's a crime. She could go to jail for that.

Answer 7

Find a tape of nice music, a pleasant drink, sit down, relax, and forget about it.  

Drive to drive better next time.

Answer 8

well just dont think about it.

shes the ****** ..it waz probably jus road rage.

u might do that in the future..haha so jus dont worry bout it

Answer 9

cal her everything she called u bak plus u dont know her so  y does it matter

Answer 10

ignore her. the best thing you can do is look out for yourself and not let the words of others affect how you feel.

Answer 11

You need to develop a thicker skin.  Haven't you ever heard of the rhyme "sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me?"  It's very true.  You don't know the woman.  Why should you care what she thinks of you?  Maybe she had a terrible fight with her husband or a co-worker today.  Maybe she's not feeling well.  Whatever her problem is, it's hers ... not yours, so try to let it roll off your back.

Answer 12

1) It is illegal to hit your car and go away.

2) People do this all the time, they are mad at themselves or other outside influences so they project there anger at you.

3) It should not be misconstrued as a personal attack directed at you.  You were at the "wrong place, and the wrong time"

LOL, I'm sure you will be fine.  Your nerves are up and you are angry.  Increased depression/aggression explains why you are not attentive.  The inncident raised your Serotonin levels.  The higher your Serotonin are the more angry you are.

Go for a long/hard run/workout.  Or eat a ton of chocolate.  I know...I know...chocolate.  Stereotype right...

Chocolate increases the amount of endorphins which will help you with your depression/grief.  Same as running/exercising (hence how people get a "runners high")

Also drink Fiji water and eat nuts, chicken.  They all contain Magnesium (you can also take the tablets).  That is a natural relaxant.  

Finally eat a big meal.  It takes allot of energy for your body to eat a ton of food.  So it will make you sleepy.  But remember, never drink water when you are eating.  Water decreases the amount of acidity in your mouth and will make you fatter the more you eat.

It is her fault, so don't vent for to long.  If need be, let it out.  The worse thing you can do is let this festering become a repressed emotion.  Good luck with whatever you plan on doing.  God bless and remember, every negative encounter yields positive experiences.

Regards,

Dane

Answer 13

Get over it they were just words

Answer 14

Learn the bus route and take the bus.

Answer 15

when that happens, just look 'em in the eye and smile.  

Like you know something about them that they don't want you to know.