ENGAGED,PREGNANT,JUST FOUND OUT ANOTHER WOMAN IS ALSO HAVING HIS CHILD, WHAT DO I DO?

Question

HE DIDNT CHEAT, A GIRL HE WAS WITH BEFORE ME HAS JUST INFORMED US THAT SHE IS 8 MOS PREGNANT BUT DIDNT FIND OUT UNTIL A MONTH AGO THAT SHES PREGNANT.HE'S SAYING THAT HE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS GIRL OR THE BABY, THAT HE WANTS TO MARRY ME AND HAVE OUR BABY

Answer 1

what kind of man is this to say that he does not want to be involved with a innocent baby that may be his what you need to do is befriend this woman and make sure that if this baby is his that your child and this other child have a healthy relationship with each other

Answer 2

Well if he didnt cheat than i say stay with him, it was his past. People make mistakes all the time but he still needs to be involved in the babies life. It wouldnt be fair otherwise.

Answer 3

why would you be engaged and pregnant to a man that you have been in a relationship for obviously under 8 months? most likley less? The question is  not about the other women, its about you moving too fast!!  

Answer 4

If this guy can leave another woman and have nothing to do with their child he can do the exact same thing to you and your child.

Answer 5

Is it really possible to not know about own pregnancy for 7 months?

Answer 6

how can a girl not know she is 8 month pregnant! that makes no sence! and if he if it is his child he should man up and take care of his child. think twice bfor marring this guy!  

Answer 7

do you really want to marry a man that wants nothing to do with a child that he fathered.  He could do the same thing to you in a couple of months...think long and hard before making a decision that you could regret....

Answer 8

Your an idiot if you stay with a man that's willing to turn his back on his own baby! Not to mention that you may want to step back and reevaluate the situation because you may not know him very well and you may be better off not marrying him! What other secrets does he have lurking around?

Answer 9

tell the other woman to get a dna test to prove its his.  If it is then he has to be a man and support that child.  he doesn't have to have anything to do with the other woman but he will be required by law to pay child support if it is his baby.

Answer 10

He NEEDS to have something to do with that baby. And because of the fact that he got this girl pregnant, she will probably be involved with him for the rest of this child's life. Good luck!