EXTREMELY SERIOUS!!!! NEED UR HELP?

Question

im turnin 14 nd ma mom used 2 beat my sista...alot... my sisterz 18 now nd she moved out... my mom got married 2 diz guy 2yrs ago nd had 2 more kidz only a few monthz a part...dey get alot of attention nd i get treated lyk dirt..but n e ways he threatens me wen he getz mad nd she does nuttin about it nd i vizited ma cuzn recently nd i wuz cryin nd beggin her 2 make me stay...i live in da bronx nd ma cuzn livez in georgia i wanna run away but i dnt kno how ima get there i wanna b a actressmy cuzn is 43 by the way and she has kids...dey go 2 ga gret HS nd i really love them nd im scared 2 stay here plz help me if i hav 2 stay i mite as well die cuz i cnt do this i dnt want her 2 yell and hit me anymore...i cant tke it anymore

Answer 1

save up money for a bus ticket and pack your stuff that's my best guess or call child protective services

Answer 2

i agree i can't even read this

Answer 3

call the police trust me if u tell them how u r being treated and tell them u want to go live with your cousin and ur cousin will tak u in u will most likely go liv with her!

Answer 4

Sweetie, there are people out there who will help you. No, you shouldnt have to live like this anymore. But, running away, especially with your cousin (could get her into trouble) and cause you even more problems. Cant you go to a guidance counselor or someone at school? If nothing else, try your church if you have one. I hope you'll be ok.

Answer 5

omg. that is horrible. if i were you i would definitly tell my cousin if you didnt already. and have her or you call the police or a child service. they will probably let u live with ur cousin and u will still be able to see ur mom but not as much and will probably go to jail for abusing u but its for th best. i hope u get help soon.  

Answer 6

OMG that is SO sad but i dont know how to help sorry just try thinking about the advantages you have like 1. you can use a computer well so can i but some people cant oh! and be excited for school youll be away from em more and pray pray to god to help you

Answer 7

If your sister moved out why dont u live with her? or u can ask her to help u get to georgia to be with your cousin. good luck

Answer 8

OMG! i am in the same position! except its my step-mum not my step-dad.(And my dad nor my step-mum have ever beaten any of us) But I had a massive arguement wiv my step-mum last night and she told me to **** off! :O

Im 14 aswell & I dont know what to do either. :(

Dont worry, your not alone.

And feel free to email me or sumit if you wanna talk bout it.

xxxx

Answer 9

my dad used 2 kick my *** alot, he was a drinker. i grabbed a bat after he hit me once n hit him back.  i was about ur age,  he didnt hit me anymore, still yelled but so what. i just left the house when he did. they cant kick u out ur underaged so i wouldnt worry 2 much. call the cops if they hit u, only thing is u might endup in a foster home.  

Answer 10

i could bearly read this. talk like an american if we are going to let you come here.

call this number: 18885804357.

it's a runaway hotline. they can help talk here

Answer 11

Dont run away, yet. Has she hit you? Next time she does go to the police, or a teacher or someone you trust! If you run away, you could be treated like one, and just get returned to her. It would help if your sister went to the police too. You just need to tell. Then, your cousin might get granted custody of you. Good luck!

Answer 12

Sweetheart, i know how that feels. I grew up with 12 bros and sis's and I was the 2nd oldest. I got beat everyday, by mom and dad, and they were always angry and i was always taking care of my 10 younger sibs. I also had an aunt that wanted me to move in with her when i was 18, but my grandma owned their house, and grandma told me, " Mary, I want you to go back home, and suffer a couple more years, and then you get a job, and get out". She basically told me to leave. She didn't want to have an 18 year old tromping around her place, but also, she had some wisdom. I did go back home, but a year later, found a roomie, and at age 19 moved out on my own. Havent been back since. You may need to stay a few more years too love. But, if your cousin will take you in , you make sure to be thanking her, and do right by her. If you have to stay with your mom, pleaze don't kill your self, you will grow, and find your way and it WILL be alright. Just have some good goals and work for them.

Answer 13

you need to call police... we can't help you im so sorry =(

Answer 14

go to the cops or get em tickets ask if ur cuz can pay or tell ur mom theres no attention on me an this guy hurasses me an say that at any time dont be scared

or go live with ur sista

Answer 15

Child Abuse is a terrible crime!

Can you go live with your older sister or your cousin in Georgia?  If not, maybe you should contact an abuse hotline like this one: 1-800-4-A-CHILD

The authorities will be able to remove you from the home and your mom will go to prison.

Good luck whatever you decide to do.

Answer 16

umm leave?

ask your cousin if there is any way that she can get you there.

then leave but i would tell your mom cause she might be mad but its your decison to tell her or not

Answer 17

It sounds like you definitely do need to get out of there. Do you have any way of getting money? maybe take a bus down there? i don't know but your situation at home sounds like a ticking time bomb. i used to have a bad situation at home myself but mostly because of myself causing all the  problems because I am bipolar. I moved out of my parents house over a year ago though and I'm doing better now.

My suggestion is I would try looking up the bus route and I know it would be a long bus ride to get to Georgia but I think it would be worth it because you would be out of the hellhole your in now. Can you contact your cousin in georgia and ask them for money? Did they say you could go live with them?

Answer 18

omg! first thing u need 2 do is calm down and take a deep breath. i really think that u need 2 sit your mom down and try 2 talk to her! tell her how u feel and tell her that u feel like leavin, and maybe she will talk to her husband about it. god bless!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 19

go and live with ur cuzin cuz ur mom had some major problems much!!!! but i'd feel sorry for her other 2 kids....having to live through that if she turns to them =( tell ur cuzin and maybe she'd go over there and check every once in a while

Answer 20

I would beat my kid too if she spoke as poorly as you.  Get yourself an education you illiterate r****d.

Answer 21

Yes you need to get out of that situation. Do you have any other realatives around. Talk to your cousin or sister hopefully they will let you stay. Good Luck

Answer 22

ask your cuzin if she could pay for your plane ticket

and if that doesnt work ask her to talk to your mom for u and strees how u cant live like that

Answer 23

Try to contact a trusting uncle or auntie explain to them of your situation. & ask if you could live with them. Sounds like you are in the wrong place to begin with. Looks like a toxic related home environment. Do not forget to pray it should help you through this time.

Answer 24

wow thats bad....i think u should go to the police....tell them my mom and step dad r beating me....i hav a place where i can stay but i just need to get away from my mom....they will find her and her husband guilty and they will go to jail for child abuse....u can request to stay with ur cousin and have her adopt u...but ur ur younger siblings will get stuck in a childrens home

Answer 25

i dont want her to yell and hit you either. i am not sure where you want to stay but if it is your aunts , you still need to sit down and discuss the situation with your mom, maybe she has changed.

Answer 26

Well if your cousin wont have you live with her theres not much you can really do on that point, you could however go to social services or some other thing like police etc and explain why you cant go home.

Answer 27

Go to the police and tell them they will fix all your problems do not be scared.

Answer 28

y dnt u move in with ur sista?