Egypt Section: After marriage, then what?

Question

When you get married, will you want to start having children right after or do you want to wait? Why?

Answer 1

After Marriage dIvorce haha Joking

Answer 2

My sister has been married for 3 years!!!!! and still no kid!!! everyone tells her when will she have one...in my family they have kids with in the year or latest 2 years.

i would probably have kids with in after 2 years of my marriage or unless me and my husband has enough money to afford a big family,i'll gladly have children with in 2 years.if my husband agrees to it

Answer 3

no my dear i must search for additinal wife

Answer 4

I don't want children directly after get married.. I want to wait like one or two years... but I don't know well. It depends.. I mean if I will be working at that time or so.. and I want also to enjoy the time with my husband. Without children you feel yourself more free and you can go out and so.. :)

but I think one or two years are enough to stay without children... you don't know how much I love children :D I want four or five.. lool.. bas akeed metl ma rabena bado.. allahu a3lam..

Answer 5

personally it depends on my age if i was 23 or something i would wait 2 years or more if i was 26 or 27 i wouldn't have my baby when i'm thirty  

Answer 6

after marriage , a couple must explore life together .

they have to know how to go out together , eat , rest ,sleep , work , join hands , and express anger , love , joy to each other.

they have to travel together , go on vacation together , etc.

after they have all the fun and exploration they want , they can plan to have their first child .

Answer 7

I already got married, but I never put much thought into ANY major decisions in life.  After marriage I just "ended up" w/ children.  I still have adventure + travel often (been to 8 different states and 3 different countries since the beginning of 2008), I have switched my majors AFTER having had children...children are portable, it seems that ppl. forget that and act as if they can't leave their homes once the children are ejected.  My family helps out and my husband is flexible so that helps, too.  I'm a bit of a gypsy and i like it that way.  Had my kids @23,25 + 29  yrs. of age.  I don't think i would've been happy having had them after 30 though.  doesn't require that much planning as long as you can afford to feed them, have a roof over your head and things you consider adequate for their futures...

Answer 8

we in Egypt consider preventing baby birth is kind of going against God's well. and some kind of bad luck sign.. so we let it happen naturally.

maybe they can then apply some birth control methods (prescribed by a doctor). but it is favorable to welcome the first child as early as possible

in some cases both parties choose to delay the first child, specially if the woman is working in her post-graduate studies for example.

after reading Moonrise answer i cant say for sure what is right or wrong, what she said is consdiribal, but sometimes having the first baby strengthen their emotional realtionship more. it depends on both character and the type of romance between them.

another point to add: sometimes waiting sometime is important as "early" divorce rating is increasing. and it would be better to give both parties a chance to explore things togather before being commited to the happiness of their new baby.

Answer 9

i have my first son after marriage i found that better look im special case cause my husband isnt that man who want to go out and that stuff which happened at the first of marriage he even dont allow me to work so to have kid take part of time thats was better to me  

Answer 10

We didn't talk about it except that we will leave it to God Wish.

But after marriage, prepare breakfast to ur hubby, clean the house, prepare lunch, wash dishes, prepare dinner, wash dishes again, T.V or P.C, and sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep.

Answer 11

@Eman: don't you think you've missed something?

if that's the routine then the answer will be no children at all !!!

Ahhh.. maybe they are forcing birth control in china

Answer 12

hehe

DUNNO ?!!

Do u know ?!!!

=))))))))))))))))))))))))

Answer 13

it should be mutual understanding between the two partner.

every body is different, some like to wait few years, then have kids, some others love to have kids quick.

Answer 14

I agree with Moonrise's opinion.  All the fun after marriage without the children strengthens the relationship.