Egyptians: it is very very important?

Question

u know i want to be an officer

well i had hope that they will open it for girls but unfortenaly they didnt

:( :(

so i have only 1 chance which is entering a college which has no future and after i graduate maybe i be an officer and maybe not

and maybe i work in a place i want in military and maybe not (work in aplace i dont like)

i like this feild but as i said it has no future

and now i am in good college and it has great future

and i like it

but its not my ambition

i want to be an officer :((((

do u think i should risk?

or accept my fate and maybe they open something for girls,(the days will make me forget it)?

please its very important

Answer 1

gigi habebty,

انت تريد وانا اريد والله يفعل ما يريد

i know u don't like what college u r in,and u feel that u won't like it...i was like u,and i can't say i liked what i am in...but i learnt to be pleased with what Allah had destined for me,and days proved to me that this situation is better for me.

u said yourself:''has no future'' and for me doubt means don't.

in my opinion,tawakally 3la Allah..don't look beneath ur feet,i like the fact u thought about ur future...so do what is best for u in the future inshAllah...

Answer 2

thir is institute of nurse for girls,,,you will be an officer with to stars on hospital if you want i can help you my self as iam great rank officer engineer

Answer 3

Gigi, I don't understand, what do you mean by "Risk" if you have only one choice at the moment as you said??

At least alhamdulellah you are going to a good college and you like it. In the future you can change if you have the opportunity. I don't see any risk whatsoever.

Rabena yebareklek in your study and use it in something beneficial to the society same as you do when you are an officer.

Edit:

ok, now I understand. easy one, don't take the risk with your life or career. You can take risk with money, games, sports,...etc. but not your personal life or career.

What you are saying is like jumping of the bridge to the river on the hope that you either become a world champion in swimming or die !! and since you have very small tiny chance (almost =0) of becoming a world champion in swimming. then ....(you know the rest)

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Answer 4

remain in the college that has a good future .

a bird in the hand is better than a hundred on the tree.

you can marry an officer , if you like him .

in this way , he would make you realize your dream.

but you must love him, not ay kalam!

Answer 5

I think u should stay at the nice future college (ur current situation), i think sometimes u think it's not what u wished for, but once u start ur study u'll fed in nicely isa & u'll ask yourself "Why didn't i think about this college before??" & that feeling will compensate for not going to ur dream college.

That happened to me (except that i didn't wanna be an officer but i wanted to go to a college in another town, that also had poor future but it was my passion) but now i thank God a lot that i made the decision that led me to where i am now, because i'm very happy with my college.

Answer 6

I think you should pick the " no future college " because u would regret it and either way its going to teach you an expensive lesson , but if you do choose to go on with your  "good future college " , one day you will be wishing so bad that you can trade all your days from this day to that ;) for jus one chance to ...become the person you have always wanted but its going to be too late ..plus .. let me tell you something , you dont know whats a good future college ... believe me .. if you r interested in Law thats a great college ...by all means .. and there is a bright future if ur in some kind of a language department ..  

Answer 7

if I m going to answer your question in general I would say choose the college you really like. There is nothing called a college with no future. Any college you choose because it establishes your professional practice dreams you will be good in it and soon you will be able to graduate with high grade and maybe work in the academic field, or obtain a good position in a good firm. Keep in mind that computer skills and language acquisition is essential for your future.

But what I also don't understand that you say you like your current college but it is not your ambition!!? How come?

And why you like this field and still acknowledge that it has no future?!!

And how do you define future?

Also how do you define ambition?

Why do you want to be an officer and you are a girl (no offense)? But does it reflect something in your character? are you really aware of the professional context of this field? And are aware of its consequences later on when you get married?

Sometimes we choose things that are not our ambition just because it grantees savings and social acceptance like most ppl who want to be a doctor or an engineer. and by time they just like as their dreams and ambitions are sub-consciously transformed into new ones and their characters have somewhat change to adapt to their new life. Because we were not created to enjoy pain. This is not wrong. it is ok. but i m just trying to explain it to you. maybe it will give you more insight on what you really want instead of hiding and avoiding it.

for some other ppl such way of thinking will never work for them, specially ppl who acquire artistic skills and have a lot of creativity they want to express.. like writers, painters, designers in any field (architecture, industrial design, mechanical design, and so on)..

i will mention you something Alaa el Aswani (the novelist) said in a radio show, he is originally a dentist, and he was and still working as a dentist actually. he said that writing is not a secure job on the financial level, so he decided to practice dentistry in parallel as he writes too.

from one field he can have the financial security he needs, and from the other one find a domain to express his creativity in writing.

hope this helps