Ehh. Was I right to do this?

Question

My friend and I have been good friends for a long time now. We're 14, and last weekend me and him were hanging out, and we started to watch comedy central, and girls gone wild came on[the commercial.]

anyways, we both got turned on and we went and got on the computer and started to look at p**n. Well, eventually, we both got hard, and he started to m********e right then and there! He asked to me to join in, and I told him no, but to keep beating off, cause it sucks to stop. So i left, but I wanted to ask, Have you ever yanked with a guy?

And also, was I stupid to do that, or should I have joined in?

Answer 1

ugh...that's some g*y s**t to me

Answer 2

You were right not to join in, because you didn't feel comfortable. But if you want to try it in future, that's also normal, and there's nothing wrong in it. PLEASE read this, and be sure to read it all through - the beginning is a bit confusing:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

Just be aware that physical contact risks infection, but watching each other is perfectly safe.

Answer 3

What? You feel wrong for walking away? huh? I didn't know some many men like to do that together and not be bi/or g*y.. Come on, you can't say its not g*y just cause your balls don't touch!

Answer 4

That is a private act in my book! I'd be very careful with this type of behavior, where does your friend draw the line of whats appropriate or not? Keep you pants on and do not allow someone to make you do something you do not want to!

I don't want to say he is a homosexual, but that's weird stuff!

Answer 5

You might want to hold off on looking at p**n, at 14 you usually don't need too much extra stimulation.

But the rest of the situation shows maturity on your part. It would have been fine if you stayed and jerked off with your friend but if you didn't want to or were at all uncomfortable you did the right thing.

I have had a chance to m********e with guys and have done it a couple of times and it was fun for me. There was no touching, I masturbated myself and my friends did themselves. None of us are g*y but enjoyed seeing each other ejaculate.

What is right for you is exactly what you feel good about doing.

Answer 6

Were you stupid to decide not to join in? Absolutely not- you should only do what you feel comfortable doing. If you had joined in is there anything wrong with that? No- a lot of guys jerk off together, there's nothing g*y about that.

I've always thought it would be an interesting experience, but eh, I've never had the opportunity to though.

Answer 7

i would love to do the same ( only that i got no courage to do so )

Its like being naked in front of a group of NAKED men ( in the bath room )

Answer 8

uh it doesnt really matter if u joined in... but uh its called a circle jerk  

Answer 9

stupid teens

Answer 10

its really good that u left! boys at ur age get hard for any reason, but it's good that u know how to control it and your "friend" is really crazy. why does he do that in front of u??? if you are straight dont do anything w/ guys.. u might start doubting ur sexuality

Answer 11

Dude, I'm a guy and I've been doing much more than w-nking with guys since age 11

You weren't stupid to do what you did. What would have made you poor sport is if you insisted that he stop. But you did what you were comfortable with. He wanted to m********e and you gave him space to do that, and you obviously weren't interested in a buddy jerk situation. You handled the situation perfectly

Answer 12

never ever even mention jacking off with other guys to anybody

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Answer 13

I don't have an answer for that, dude. I have yanked with some dudes, but that was all there was to it. I don't feel there was any s*x involved, but I guess there was. I don't feel like I'm g*y, tho. I put it off as a crazy teenage experience, one to talk about over the years. Do what you want to do. Don't let anyone persuade you into anything you're not comfortable with. I know that teenage years are a wild time, but don't bank your life on them, okay? If you want to, you canemail me and we can keep this out of public. Take care, and be cool.