Ejeculation Issues- Should I be worried?

Question

First and foremost, I only ask for serious replies only!

Here is my issue (well, it may not be an issue), but, when I have s*x sober, I notice that I don't last as long as I do if I am drunk.

My gf and I have great s*x, but when we have s*x sober...the most I may last is probably ten minutes. However, I do notice if I am extremely wasted (and sometimes my gf as well), I can go for a very long time. Last thursday night we went out with friends for drinks. I had about seven patron shots, and a few other drinks and lasted for at least 45-1hour. Then, this morning my gf and I had s*x sober and it was over within 7 minutes.

Am I normal? Is it worth going to get checked out by a dr. What WOULD I ask even if I did get checked out? " Hey doc, I bust fast when im sober, whats wrong with me?"

Has anyone else experienced this? or ...is it just me.

NOW: It's not ALL the time that I bust early sober, but a good 70% of the time I do.

Your advice is much appreciated. I just want to know your opinions-- just to make sure I am not making an issue out of nothing.

Either way, my gf doesn't have a problem with the s*x. If I bust early sober, we just end up doing it again...HAHA so, its not that big a deal with her...but it is with me for some strange reason!!

Thank you!

Answer 1

I would say that you need to learn to spend more time on foreplay.  It really doesn't take that long to reach a climax, but leading up to that moment can be very important in the greater scheme of things.  So take your time, go slow, build both you and your g/f up  to a point of passion, and then reach your climaxes together at the last moment!

Good luck.

Answer 2

Do a foursome and experiment, swap partners. Do it sober then drunk, tell us the results!

Answer 3

You are very normal. Alcohol slows down a lot of things and sometimes even ejaculation. When you last 7-10 Min's you are actually average. Most guys like to brag about lasting a long time in bed but its not true.

Answer 4

You are probably more sensitive sober, the booze is numbing more than your brain.  Plus at this point, you are probably too focused on it.  Relax, go to it.  Focus on what you are doing and not how quickly you will "bust".  Enjoy.  

Answer 5

i'm pretty sure a lot of guys are like that..actually every guy i know is like that!