Embarassed... don't read if you're uncomfortable w/ TMI?

Question

thanks everybody. i already feel better.

Answer 1

i know exaclty what you mean but i dont have an answer unfortunatley...ill be watching this one to see what pple say!

Answer 2

You are not alone. There are alot of girls out there that know what you mean. I don't think there is very much you can do, but if your husband loves you for who you are, he should love the way you look no matter how disturbing it may be. Talk to him about it and tell him you are uncomfortable because you aren't satisfied with the way your v****a looks anymore. He loves you, he will understand and he will probably help you feel a bit more comfortable about yourself.

Answer 3

do your keggles exercises! i have one child, and havent had this problem, which i believe is because i have been doing keggles since i was in my teens. Im pretty sure you can buy a pelvic exerciser thing, lol, but i dont know what thats like, sounds a bit odd, but hey, it may work .And talk to your husband!! He loves you, dont be embarassed!

Answer 4

Don't worry about it, you had 2 babies! I bet your husband isn't even thinking about it. You need to relax and tell yourself you're obsessing.

Answer 5

Sorry to say, there is nothing short of plastic surgery that you can do, but I agree if he loves you it won't matter to him. If it does matter, something is wrong with him, not you. It is perfectly natural, I think probably all vaginas look that way after giving birth to more than one child. TMI lol mine looks like that too,. but I am used to it, my youngest is 11.

Answer 6

You can try working out your lower pelvic floor with Kegel exercises and lower abdomen exercises.  Less s*x also over time firms you up.  It's only been 4 months, and you'll be firmer within the year.  Try to find new ways to give each other pleasure.  He may find it even sexier???  Let him know how you feel and see what he says.

Answer 7

well ..my friend had the same problem and she was freaking out too but she said it took her a while to go back  like 6 months..but it actually went back to normal