Embarrassing... Complicated... Weird... Please interprete this dream... Thanks a lot...?

Question

My friend told me her dream last night. I cannot interprete it so I need your help. In her dreams, She is reunited with her old section Junior high class and they are still wearing uniform, some of them still look young, but she looks matured and she carry her uniform well compared before. They were given a test related to technical skills such as computer and science. She and her partner, which she did not recognize the face because they do not know each other, did their excellent job on this test. She saw in the class room her former crush with her girlfriend. And, her former crush delegated his responsibility as class secretary to her girlfriend. When she and her former crush got married, her husband raped their four years old daughter. She saw the child suffered. Then, she feels like wanted to have s*x with her old man. (That sounds weird!) And, she saw on TV the funeral of the dead actor, which also happened in real life, a tribute to the actor telling he is very kind.

Answer 1

Okay, so in the first part of your friend's dream, she's going back to a place (memory) to revisit it at an adult.  She sees that she's come a long way-- she carries her uniform well and she excels with the technical skills.

Did she marry her crush in real life?  Or just the dream?

If it's just in the dream, she's revisited an old goal--this crush and looked at the possibilities of what it would have been like to achieve that goal-- she marries him and plays it out subconsciously.

But what she finds is that maybe he wasn't so great after all. He gives away his responcilbility instead of living up to it. Compared to the dead actor who was very kind, this crush is nothing.  He's cruel because of what he did to the 4 y old. She realizes that the attributes and characteristics of the dead actor are what she's looking for.

Now, about that weird line-- "She feels like wanted to have s*x with her old man."  I want to address it specifically because I can tell it's bothering you.

Now I don't know if you meant old man, as in her husband the rapist, or as old man, as in her father-- There's so much going on in this part of the dream that I'm going to give you a double interpretation here for this.

If you meant that she wanted to have s*x with her husband the rapist-- it could be that she sees the child suffering so much that she's trying to take on pain and hurt of it herself to spare the child any more hurt. She's making herself the object to the rapist so the child is no longer an object.

If you meant that she wanted to have s*x with her dad-- then I would say that it means that she saw the child suffering and wanted to empathize with the pain of the suffering-- or she put herself in the child's place (kind of a sacrifical thing.)

Hope this clears things up for you.  Let me know if I can help more.

Answer 2

maybe she felt betrayed by a friend and something or one from the past was brought up.your dreams r your subconscious thoughts.as far as being turned on thats something you really cant help

Answer 3

The only thing I can glean from this dream is that your friend has felt that she is not up to par with others in school, even not good enough for her husband. She is someone who feels she needs to prove herself to others but first, she must be pleased with herself before she can showcase herself to others.  The actor on TV business is irrelevant.

Regards

Answer 4

when you say old man do you mean her father? cos back in the 60's when someone said old man it could mean their boyfriend as well.this was all a dream; right? none of this really happened? School dreams are very common for young adults. I was having school dreams until I was in my mid thirties. (perhaps I was a little slow-ha ha) Also, taking exam dreams are VERY common. Usually it means (whether it's the school dream or the exam dream) that you are very uncertain about an upcoming project.well, only your friend can interpret this dream 100% because only your friend knows herself more than anyone else does. But the rape is very strange and I can't figure that part out at all except to say that he is not the guy she believes he is and maybe she isn't the girl who you believe she is if there's talk about having s*x with her father. Whenever you dream of actors; you are dreaming that maybe you are hanging around with people who are deceptive and are just putting on an act. Yet, the wierd thing about this dream is; you said this is the part that was real about the dream; that she did indeed mourn when this actor died in real life so this is just very complicated. I would ask her to do her best to interpret the dream herself.