Embarrassing moment.... (perhaps from a guys point of view)??

Question

Ok so this GUY I know(not me) he did something embarrassing. I'm not going to say what tho. But anyway the whole grade knows(not being dramatic it does..) He sits next to me in math and I was going to pass a note to him tomorrow asking if he was ok. But I'm not sure because what if he takes it in the wrong way?

Do you think I should pass one or just not.

Answer 1

If I was him, (and I know I'm not a guy but still) I would just want everyone to act like nothing had happened. Like not mention it which includes asking me if I'm ok because that would just remind me of the embarassing memory. If you act like nothing happened he would probably feel better. But that's just my opinion.  

Answer 2

Don't pass a note, particularly if you have never passed him one before. That will just remind him of what he did. Don't talk to him about what he did. Just talk to him normally, as if nothing has happend. We all make mistakes, and in time people will more or less forget what he did. Eventually it will all be in the past. What he needs now though is someone to treat him as normal. Be a friend.

Answer 3

maybe instead of a note when you sit down or when he does ask him then if he is alright not loudly just friendly like, if you say it it wont seem like it is meant in any other way than concern

is the embarrassing thing that he farted?

maybe just be a friend and not laugh let whatever it was go because if you were him how would you feel knowing everyone knows

its nice of you to show compassion for a fellow classmate good luck