Embarrassing problem with my girlfriend?

Question

I got a gf I really like and shes really s**y and everything, but I got kind of an embarrasing problem. We both want to stay virgins for now but we love making out and stuff but every time we start really going at it she keeps accidentally kneein me in the balls. It totally sucks because she doesnt mean to but every time she climbs on top of me or we roll over or somethin it seems like her knee just goes right to that spot and it really hurts!

Its getting to the point where we're both kinda pissed. I get mad because my balls hurt and she starts getting defensive and calling me a whiner and stuff. She just says sorry and keeps going because she doesn't want to spoil the mood but she doesn't to realize I'm in alot of pain, and then she'll accidentally crush them again and I feel like I'm gonna die. I don't know if she subconsciusly is trying to bust my balls or if we just have the wrong body types or if its bad luck or what. She says shes trying to be careful but it still hurts soooo bad.

What can I do? This is so frustrating and embarrasing!

Answer 1

I find the best way to talk to someone about an embarrasing situation is to make a joke outa it.

say something like "hey babe stop smashin my balls!!!!" then start laughing about it and make a sad face... then tickle her!! haha i dont know that way neither of you feel as embaressed and it will give u a chance to let her know that shes hurting you.

Answer 2

How about you climbing on top of her for a change?  And what's this about her calling you a whiner?  She doesn't know what it's like to get whammed in the nuts.  Doesn't she know that our balls are on the outside of out bodies?  

Answer 3

you should talk seriously with her about it

Answer 4

If she is so insensitive about a male's most sensitive area, then I doubt that you have a match made in Heaven.

She's totally inconsiderate, if you've made it clear to her that it hurts, and she pays no attention to it.    Perhaps you've picked a lemon in the garden of love, and need to try another tree.............

I've never been with a girl who did that to me even once, let alone repeatedly, but once can be an accident, repeatedly is a real problem, and I personally would dump someone so inconsiderate in a heartbeat.

As some of the others said, wear a cup, and make her wear knee pads until she can both control her body and be considerate of yours.

If she's that careless about your anatomy, then when you actually have s*x you should check your hospitalization policy first, or else wear a suit of armor.

Answer 5

dude you should totally tell her about that problem and tell her how much it hurts because that can cause serious damage to a guy if done too much. stuff lke you not being able to have kids and stuff could happen. so i would tell her about hte situation before it goes too far. (ASAP!)..kthxbye.

Answer 6

Well - it can't go on forever.  Tell her the two of you need to figure out better positions for the comfort & convenience of each of you & stick to it.  If she's calling you a 'whiner' now - what will she be calling you if the relationship strengthens?  It sounds a little like she's not really sensitive to your needs - only hers.  That's something you need to deal with.  Good luck.

Answer 7

dude tuck ur nuts and kiss

Answer 8

wear a cup

Answer 9

  One simple solution is to wear a protective cup like baseball players do. Either that or it really sounds like you like the abuse to me or maybe you are joking and trying to get your jollies by seeing how girls respond to your post.

   She maybe is expressing anger at not being able to get in your pants. Some women want to know how you are in bed before marrying you.  

Answer 10

Lol. Not a whole lot you can do about this one Bud. The only thing I could recommend is to wear a cup. That...or stop letting her climb on top of you.  

Answer 11

try different position where your comfortable and nobody hurts.

Answer 12

Get naked... its more difficult to stay a virgin that way (though possible) .... but it is a whole lot more fun... and she might be a little more careful if she can actually feel them.

Answer 13

well, idk what to tell you man, if its happening constantly, then maybe she`s doing it on purpose?

Answer 14

You could try wearing underwear with more support for your genital area.

Maybe you need to find a different position to make out, so her knee is not naturally near your groin.

Answer 15

-Wear a cup.

-Have her straddle your waist / keep her legs on either side of you

-Tell her crushing your balls is the equivalent to punching her several times in the gut with menstrual cramps

-Talk to her about it, but keep light about it... h**l, admit it XD In retrospect it is kind of funny over all

Answer 16

hahaha i agree with nel. dude that sucks, shes inexperienced  

Answer 17

LOL sounds to me like she has no clue what shes doing!!  

Answer 18

That's funny.