Embarrassing situation.....preferably female answers?

Question

I know there are a few teen girls who've asked questions about similar situations.....but I'm in dire need of help :|

I have largish b*****s for my age (I'm 16 and have C almost D cups) and every week we have to do swimming for P.E. and it gets really embarrassing 'cause most of the guys stare at them and some make rude comments. I've always worn sports bras to 'hide' them and the such and tried minimising bras but it does no good. Firstly, how can I hide them and secondly how do I make them stop perving on me?

Answer 1

Perving is another term for sexual harrassment.  According to the law, you have the right to have big cans and to attend school without anyone commenting on them, choosing you/not choosing you because of them, no one can touch them without your permission, and you cannot be penalized by disallowing anyone from touching them.

Basically, what these boys are doing constitutes sexual harrassment and you should report them.  BUT like every other silly girl your age you dont want to make trouble cause, God knows, boys will be boys.  And, deep down, you like the attention and you REALLY want this one boy to reach out and touch one of them while no one is looking.  Whats more, it really heats you up to see the cuter girls with the A cups getting passed over by these boys.  

Answer 2

Sam age, bigger b***s, I feel your pain.  but  am a swimmer.  I am used to this.  The tick is confidence.  Do not let it bother you.  choose your clothes wisely.  Wear something that doesn't show off your b*****s.  Nothing low and flashy, but really high collared shirts show off their size too, which i am sure you already know.  When you are in the water, wear a one piece, and for more coverage wear a two-piece top under it to cover more.  Works for me every time.  But good luck, just know it is a gift, someday down the line no matter how much it bothers you know.  it will get easier good luck and e mail me if you have anymore questions.

Answer 3

just keep wearing a sports bra or report them to your teachers

Answer 4

    Well,  try to wear a bathing suit that has good support and adequate coverage.  Sometimes black bathing suits can give an illusion of sliming or hiding the size.   As for you pervy classmates-  maybe you should make your own rude comments about their small weiners or their wrinkly balls.   This should re-direct their attention to something else

Answer 5

omg you have no clue how lucky you are! im almost 16 and I barely have ANYTHING! it sucks! well if you want to hide them then you can wear blggy sweaters and stuff.

be happy with your b***s! im defenetly not happy with mine AT ALL!

Answer 6

Keep using the sports bra, and wear a larger (baggy) shirt for sports.

As for the guys, tell them to shut up and then just ignore them. Boys are fascinated with them... because they don't have them.  

Answer 7

First off, guys are immature. Say that you don't appreciate their rude comments. If they don't back off, I'd inform your P.E. teacher. You should never have to be in an uncomfortable situation about that. When I was in public school something similar happened, it was really awkward and uncomfortable to me but the guy later apologized because he realized how it made me feel.

My suggestion would be to get a good swim suit that holds you in (not too tight though, you don't want to lose circulation lol) one that fits right and black in color. Black is a "hiding" "slimming" color.

Best of luck hun!

Answer 8

Guys are jerks. they will look and stare even if you do not want them to.

My b***s size is 36 c. I hated them most of my life because i thought that they are too huge. But they are yours and it is your own body. remember your body is your home, if you do not feel safe and comfortable in it, then you feel lost.

So love you bod no matter what...

Answer 9

I am not a girl... but i understand the situation very well. Its a part of growing and you shouldn't be embarrassed.

Just relax... do things as usual and forget of what people say to you.  

Answer 10

Be proud of your body! dont worry if they perve on you!guys that age perve on anyone and anything!

Answer 11

I had the same exact situation as you when I was 16. Here is the best solution.. Don't hide them! You're a growing girl. You should not be embarrassed of your b*****s. They come in all different sizes. Yours just developed a little faster. Truth is, there's probably tons of girls in your class who wish they had larger b*****s.

I say just be happy and accept it! However, if you don't want to do that just yet, they do make bathing suits with built in bras. That might help. and as far as the pervs go, there is nothing you can do about that. They're teenage boys and that is just the way their minds work. I know it's rough, but it gets better I promise. If they make remarks - ignore it! They'll get sick of saying stuff if they get no response :)

Good luck!