Emjay's real Dad.?

Question

Thanks guys, like life goes on and all that, and I can have the p**s taken out of me with the best of them, but let's lay off the families okay.

Answer 1

All is well my boy, be strong.

Answer 2

Yes I agree Emjay, some people don't know when to stop and that's when racist remarks starts creeping out. Some people on here (not going to name them) does reach the limit and starts to insult others without even knowing that they are hurting the persons feelings.. We should be respectful towards each other. Sorry to hear about your father...

Answer 3

People, even Emjay's family does not deserve to be insulted. If you want to insult, Emjay provides plenty of opportunity for contributors to do this to him.

But at least lay off his family.

Answer 4

Yeah I hear you. I am sure it was not intended, but has turned out be be a bad and sick joke. As you say, we do not know one another and whoever he is, he could not have known the circumstances. I am sure it will stop immediately.

I apologise for participating in the answers involving 'Emjays Dad'

I hope all continues to go well for your Dad....and your Mom recovers from the fear and fright. Head up Emjay. Give your Dad and Mom a gentle kiss and hug from me. (I know about throat cancer.....it is terrible, terrible, terrible)

And I know that awful heartache and panic, I am so sorry.

Answer 5

MJ - I am so sorry to hear this and I'm not sure what to say to this because I've never been in your shoes however my thoughts and prays are with you and your family!

Some peoples sense of humour is nie lekker nie!

Answer 6

Sorry to be dim..........but not sure what you are asking. Who's insulting who ?

Answer 7

If you are referring to MJ's question, then I must say it was an honest question. I have never seen 'Emjay's Dad' on this forum. Neither has she, therefore the question.

There are a lot of intrigues and stuff going on in this forum and if we are unable to ask a question in the sad event that someone's feelings might be hurt or that we happen upon a sensitive subject for someone, then we should all stop asking questions. Most of us newcomers do not have all the info the 'regulars' do. So the only way for us to learn the do's and dont's, is to ask questions.

The question, I'm sure, was not meant as a joke and neither was my answer meant as a joke. It's amazing how an innocent question from MJ can cause such a massive blow up.

I am sorry to hear about your parents health. It is my hope that things will look better for them in the near future.

Answer 8

I´m sorry to hear that, Emjay.

Answer 9

I am so sorry about your folks and I pray they get better soon. I hope that Emjay's dad has a character change soon and backs off. A jokes a joke but I don't think it is right to get so personal, perhaps there was no malicious intent but enough is enough.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear about your problems, I wish everything of the best for your Dad and family and pray for a speedy recovery for everyone.

I think Emjay's Dad was more tongue in cheek than malicious, don't take it to heart, it's just a bit of fun.

Hope that your Dad gets better soon.