my hunni and I decided to spend some quality time ALONE yesterday and send the kids to grandmas for the evening. We are expecting our 3rd child in 3-4 weeks ;)
He even asked me if I could come home early from work and cook dinner early. I do, to find him sleeping!!!! I try to wake him up and he snaps at me like a dragon. I could have stayed at WORK THEN and come home regular time!
I'm annoyed, but I cook, wash the dishes, clean out the fridge, rearrange our baby gifts, fold up 3 bags of baby clothes my sister gave me and organize them by age all before he wakes up. He wakes up after 7pm, and I overhear him on the phone telling his brother he will meet him by 9pm… I ask where do u think u r going at 9p? and he goes into this whole thing about his brother going back to London and he will be back later.. I’m FUMING.. when did u figure all this out? when were you going to tell me? Why did you ask me to leave work early if you are going to make plans!!!
So he leaves at 9pm and comes back at 12:20am.. of course I’m already in bed! He is such a jerk sometimes.. I told him this morning that he was inconsiderate yesterday. He blows up and tells me I always get mad at things that are so stupid and there are more life threatening things in the world. he says I need counseling to stop being so sensitive and emotional all the time! (MIND U I AM 36WEEKS PREGNANT TOO!!!)
I told him he needs counseling for even starting such an argument; all of that because i said one thing to him, he cant be serious! but he is always emotionally inconsiderate and telling me I am stupid for getting mad and everytime i dont agree with his actions he tells me i overreact and tries to convince me that whatever he did is not a big deal.. I think he just has no heart and I am sick of it!!! can a person grow out of such a state, can he ever learn to appreciate or at least respect my emotions?????? he makes me feel guilty for having feels and always turns the situation to where he is the flipping victim!
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