Ending A Relationship?

Question

We bought a house 3 years ago together and we got a adjustable rate mortgage. Our original martgage was $2,650 a month but just shot up to $6,123 a month 4 months ago. We are now late on every bill and our cars are about to be taken on Augest 1, 2008. We are 24 & 27 years old and we'll both be filing for bankrupt soon. We argue everyday and the relationship is really going down hill. I think we need time away from eachother. How should I tell him that I think it's time that we handle our business and move on?

Answer 1

tell him that u had a great relationnship w/ him but it is time u 2 should go ur seperate ways.u should offer 2 b friends

nd if he asks u y?explain 2 him ur feelins about the relationship.i hope my advice helps.bye:)

Answer 2

Well before you decide just remember things always get worse before they get better.  If you can stop the argueing ,avoid blaiming, eachother and love eachother like you should it will work out.  Maybe if you could remember the reason why you both fell in love it will bring things back to where they were.  Don't give up hope.

Answer 3

The number one problem couples fight over is money. You have to remove yourself from your current situation and ask, "If I wasn't burdened with all this financial worry, would I still want to leave him?". If the answer is yes, then take care of your business and leave. But if the answer is no, figure out ways you both can alleviate the stress money is causing you. Leaving him is not going to stop the collection calls. You are still responsible for your own debt. So take a look at your options and decide if this is coming from your heart, or if its coming from your wallet.

Answer 4

sorry idk

Answer 5

just come out and tell him

theres no easy way to do it

Answer 6

don't break up just because of ur financial problems. what if u marry someone in the future, have kids, and then face financial problems? ur just gonna ruin the relationship? TRY ur hardest to work it out with him. it's a good practice. a VERY good practice. it seems that u guys are fighting because of the bills not necessarily because you guys can't get along. that's a silly reason to break up in my opinion. u don't realize what u've had until u lose it. don't let that happen.