My mom loved fiancé until we got engaged.My parents even granted their blessing when he asked to marry me.Now she sends me on guilt trips for not seeing her as much as his family even though she never visits us.She gripes when I have plans with his family. She was not welcoming or inviting of him when we were first engaged(didn't even say 'congrats' or give a hug)We didn't talk for months.I don't even know how to talk to her about planning the wedding (and I've now been engaged 8 mo w/nada)I'm afraid to talk about him.My second issue is his mother.I hate her.She is insane and has no boundaries.She buys him underwear and comes between me and him.She calls ALL THE TIME.She wants to know every detail of his/my/our lives.His dad is judgmental and sexist but that's another problem. If we don't answer the phone on the first try,she calls&calls until we answer.She dotes far too much on him.She is selfabsorbed,judgmental,loud,gross,gossi... fiancé knows how I feel.What to do?
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