English man living in Hong Kong?

Question

My partner is having my baby in Hong Kong, she wants me to move there and live with her, she is starting her first year of uni in 1 month and she is just over 2 months pregnant.

Now i have no trades, or skills to work in HK I have had plenty of jobs in the UK but nothing really to show for my self as a young man I have had a learning disability(dyslexia) which made it hard for me to learn at school and I have had to deal with it. I also only speak English. How hard is it going to be to get a job?

She has also lived in the UK for almost 10 years in a boarding school and her family lived in HK during this time, she speaks English 100% and knows the areas, I have never been to HK.

At this time, her family do not know about the baby on the way, she is afrid of what they will say and do and is waiting on the rite time.

Also I do not want to lose her.

If there is anyone that has had this or smiler or can just shed some light on this thanks

Answer 1

u are a good man. were u guys ready to start a family?

did u guys already planned in having the baby in the first place or was it an accident?

oh well, finding a job in HK is not tough but life is definitely tougher than in the UK. housings are very expensive. my best advise is, if u wanna start a family, u have to be honest and let both parents know wats going on. its impossible to hide from them, at least they can help u in any aspects if u guys needed help.