with my first gf I got ed when she went down on me both times. then we broke up. my second gf I took my time with having s*x and it still happened again but I did have s*x although most of the time I was high. i do not smoke anymore, and still hold somewhat of a fear for this displeasure I seem to run into. she also got super mad and ended up telling a bunch of people out of her frustration. i know thinking only makes it worse, but it has somewhat deteriorated my self esteem in this area over the past year and i am wondering what to do. i am not looking to have a gf, because I do not feel it is a good time, but i want to have s*x. girls do not make me nervous, but for some reason I cannot keep things going. please help!
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