Erotic dream about high school sweetheart...?

Question

Last night, I had an extraordinarily vivid and lifelike full-on erotic dream about the boy I was passionately in love with at high school. It never quite got off the ground for us at the time, and the subject matter of my dream DEFINITELY does not reflect reality! I am happily married and haven't seen or heard from my high-school sweetheart in almost 20 years. Can anyone tell me what this means?

Answer 1

you may still have feelings for him in the deepness of your mind, or may just be your mind randomly runnning through old thoughts, and came apon that one you may of had 20 years ago

Answer 2

Its hard to tell, our brains like to roam pretty freely through our lives while we're asleep. You could've been simply reliving emotions from the time or your brain was just fantasizing (pretty normal in married women and men.) Of course if you constantly dream like this you might not be entirely happy in your relationship and your subconcious is making you more aware of it in dreams...but I wouldn't worry about that from one dream.

Answer 3

Maybe you want to get some of the pleasure you felt in the dream from your husband.

However, your husband, like the high-school sweetheart is not what you fantasize about.

Answer 4

i had the same problem... i have a lovely bf, but kept having saucy dreams about other men!

To dream about s*x, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had s*x. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.

To dream about s*x with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.

To dream that you are having s*x with an ex or something that is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together.�Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fianc�. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring unhappiness.

hope that helps :) x

Answer 5

It's your subconscious telling you that you haven't bonked enough men in the past and that you are bored of your husband sexually.

Answer 6

thats the magic of first love