Errg!! Im going crazy!! Please help!?

Question

Ok, so I really like this boy, like REALLY really like him. I hadn't seen him the whole summer, so i was kind of over him by he end of the summer. But today was my first day of school, and I saw him again, and every time I see him I like him more. I am going crazy right now, I NEED to talk to him. I keep making small talk to him over txting, but he doesn't really seem interested in the conversation. Does anyone have any good conversation starters? And also, I REALLY want him to like me, but I don't want to change myself. Do any of you boys have any tips of what turns a guy onto a girl? I'm almost 14 by the way.

Answer 1

oh my god. it honestly sounds like i could have written this. except on the fourth of july i was texting him and well, i just stopped liking him lol. and now whenever i see him i like him more, but it just makes me hate myself and him more for me liking him lol.

but uhm, you could ask him what he did over the summer. ask him if he likes anybody.

and if he says he lieks somebody then you could do that whole "well i will tell you who i like if you tell me."

and dont worry about the texting thing. EVERY guy is like that.  

Answer 2

too young, my dear focus on your education!

Answer 3

u HAVE to talk to him, boys LOVE the girl that is talkative and giving THEM attention!

Answer 4

stay in school and dont do drugs. :)

Answer 5

i had kinda the same thing happen to me... like i thot he was cute but he flirted with pretty much every girl so i figured he really didnt like me... and so i was over him... kinda. then at school i was in the office getting a schedule change it was 7th period he came in and i didnt say anything then he was like why are you ignoring me then he came over there and started pushing down on my shoulder... and im like wtf??? if he is flirtatious dont go for him because chances are you eill get hurt... in your situation if you really like this guy i would like try to get him to notice me like "accidentally" bump into him or like wave in yhe halls then he might flirt back.... if you want to get him into you talk aboput something s**y

Answer 6

Ask him about himself.  See what kinda things he's into.  If you guys have some things in common, talk about that with him.  Just be yourself, if you are confident, he will like you.  Good luck!

Answer 7

be confident

make him notice u

but dont smother him by trying to make him talk to u all the time

guys like a little challenge.

just make urself noticed

and stand out above all the other girls

guys also dont like rude girls who are all into themselves

just show him that u know how to have a good time

& u would be fun to hang out with.

just watch out. theres a fine line between outgoing & obnoxious

but good luck girl! =]

Answer 8

Idk.........

Answer 9

theres nothing you can do if he's not interested...but d**n,why so desperate...you should be sharing that interest with someone that LIKES YOU,and not just kissing up to anyone.....

Answer 10

LOSERR

Answer 11

talk about school, that usually makes something happen, or talk about something funny that happened with a sibling or yourself or a friend. or if you want to be bold, ask him to hang out.

you only live once, dont waste it going crazy.

Answer 12

Well, firstly I would txt him about his dates.. i mean what he is going to this weekend.. blah blah. And then you could start showing yourself at school i mean that he must know that you are interesting. Or just casually say hi to him.. meaning if he passes by you.. say"hi".

Hope to help...

Answer 13

Hi there,

NOTE: This is my personal opinion. I am not a professional. Use my advice at your own discretion.

Hmm...you really like him, huh? Well, first of all, let me tell you something: you can force somebody to like you. I know, I know, it really stinks. But its life. But don't lose hope yet!

A guy probably likes a girl when they feel a "connection" with the girl (similar interests, personality chemistry, etc.).

You said that he is giving off signals that he doesn't like you back. But don't lose hope (I feel like a tape recorder right now, repeating everything I say over and over!). But really, don't lose hope!

It could just be that the small talk is not very interesting to him.

Here are some tips:

- keep your texts to him open (like a question), so it will probably make it easier for him to respond. For example, "Hey, what's up?", he will say "nothing much" (probably), but instead, you can say something like "How was the football game? Heard you were the the star player ;)" Or something like that. It is flirty, and tells him that you are interested, while posing a question that he can answer. Plus, if he is on the football team, he probably loves football, so it can lead to him talking to you about something he's really passionate about.

- people like to talk about themselves. So, knowing that, you can ask him about himself. A great benefit is that YOU learn more about him too!

- Talk to him during lunch, or when you guys are in a big group...It's easier to approach him. Then get him away from the crowd. For example, talk to a close friend (and tell her about this plan first, so she knows what you are doing!) and then mouth to him "Save me" or "Help". It'd be a cute way of showing that you want to talk to him...privately. Plus, he can be your Knight in Shining Armor!

Anyway, you can't force him to like you, but you can definately make friends with him so that he could realize that you guys have a cool bond, or connection. It's not garunteed to work, those were some suggestions. Do something you are comfortable with.

If you are not used to talking to him in person, then you can always start with a smile in the halls. The next day, you can smile and wave, and say "hey".

Or, if you guys are in the same science class (or whatever subject) and there is a group project, you can be like "Hey, heard you're a good partner. I have to see for myself". It's flirty, and subtle, but you are  bascially asking him to be your partner. But be prepared for rejection, just in case. You never know! I'm not trying to bring your hopes down or anything, but he COULD potentially reject you. If you don't want to take that risk, you probably shouldn't do this flirty move.

Remember, you know what is best in the situation. You know him, and how he will react to different things. How do you think he'd react when he finds out that you are interested him? How will you react if you are rejected? Are you ready for that? Ask yourself some questions like those before you do anything. And remember that you don't have to do any of those suggestions. Because, after all, they are just suggestions. Don't do anything that its too risky for you, or that you don't feel 150% comfortable with! You have the best judgement under the circumstances! Trust your gut.

Remember, keep your chin up, and radiate confidence. Even if he isn't The One, don't be discouraged. You are special and unique in your own way. And if he accepts, congrats.

I hope this helps and wins Best Answer. Good luck with Dream Boy.

Oh, and by the way, SOME (not all boys) boys can be a little immature (I'm not trying ot stereotype anything though...just a personal observation!).

So, that's about it. With that, I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 14

i had the same problem. just ask him about his summer or casually make a joke about one of your teachers. if you never talk to him, then you wont have a chance. you can do it!!! good luck. =]

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Answer 15

well...

you must first know if he has a girlfriend or not!

when he is alone go talk to him about yourself or interests!

when you get along together nicely tell him how you feel about him!

maybe he will fall in love with you...