Etiquette, One of my male friends has a tendency to adjust his p***s in public.?

Question

whenever my friend is uncomfortable he just starts ajusting his junk in public. Whether it's in a line at a restaraunt or any public setting. I know that other people see it. To be honest it bugs me. I know I must have some bad habit that bothers him but I don't pull down my underwear, pick my nose or other irritating things.

The question is: what is the best way to talk to him about it. Or should I even talk to him about it?

Thank you all in advanced!!

Answer 1

Yeah, just ask him not to do it. You are in public.

Answer 2

take him to the lunatic asylum

Answer 3

Heck I scratch my butt with my teeth.  What the hay.  I bet you never had fleas.

Answer 4

Yeah, I do it sometimes, and it pisses my girlfriend off too when she catches me doing it! But as previous male responses demonstrate, it's just a thing we do.

Answer 5

You're in a relationship with him.

It's, only, fair to mention a flaw

that bothers you.

Pick a time when you two are

alone.  Approach the subject.

Discuss it.  

It's better you say something

than a rude person in line at a

restaurant, or other place.

Answer 6

For all those that say that all men do that and that it's normal, that's like saying it's normal and ok for women to adjust their b*****s or pick a wedgie in public. I have never seen my boyfriend adjust himself in public. If he needs to, he'll go to the restroom to do it or somewhere no one can see him. I would just say something light hearted to him the next time you see him do it. Something like "Geez, why do guys always feel the need to adjust themselves in front of people?" That way you're letting him know that other guys do it, but that it bugs you.

Answer 7

I'd just say  "you ok now?? You sure???"

Answer 8

I agree with inferno

Answer 9

I had the same problem with my boyfriend.  When I asked him if he noticed that he did it, he got really offended, and denied it.  Then whenever he started doing it, I would stare at it, he would see me and then realize what he was doing that caught my attention, and then stop.  Once he realized what he was doing was noticeable, he quit. I never had to say anything again.

Answer 10

Only one ? Chaps do this all the time. Just say something like, "Keep your hand off your ha'penny, dear." Make a gentle joke about it, that should do the trick, and just be thankful he's not scratching his ar&e.

Answer 11

No big deal. I think we all do it. You need to adjust from time to time otherwise it hurts. You don't have a p***s so you wouldn't know. It's like asking a guy about period cramps lol.

Answer 12

Guys do that, just part of their thing. My friends did that all the time, wherever. Didn't even notice after a while.

Answer 13

The next time it happen in public, just look at him and in a low voice say " hey is everything OK down there, If the anything I  need to know about" Trust me after he gets of the shock, he'll stop. Let me just add for all of us who are forced to look at these guys doing this ahead of time. It's nasty and shows low class. If ya wouldn't do it in front of your grandmother don't even thing about doing it in front of me.

Answer 14

its gotta be done. sorry.

Answer 15

If it itches we will scratch it.  Good luck trying to get him to change.