Ever felt that everything..?

Question

ever felt that everything has got out of your control,you are trying to do something but nothing is having an affect..ever felt really helpless??

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Answer 1

am trying to over come bdd,it all seams helpless,even though i have four children with special needs that struggle with everyday life i dont no how i could be so selfish!!!! am trying hard to over come it.

Answer 2

Yes ..But i fought with the situation.. put all my effort physically, mentally and spirtually though i was helpless..and overcame the situation.  All the best if you too trying to overcome..fight it out you will win!! and will become a refined and tough person.

Answer 3

Sometimes yes i feel so:)))

Answer 4

Yes, I have faced such a situation when everything goes out of control and any action from my side has no effect. The more I try the more I understand that I am really helpless. Then I step aside and ask for help from above, I ask god to take over my life, direct all my action, and I renounce all the fruits of my actions.

Answer 5

Yes! Every individual goes through such a PHASE. When I say PHASE it means that it is something that does not last.

Remember that every day is not same.

It is said that: "Some days you are the windsheild and some days you are the bug."

When we come across such a situation we need to shift our focus from our needs, our problems to others' needs and problems.

May be if things didn't work out for you, they might work for someone else.

Lack of purpose in life also affects us in this way. It is said :"Poverty of purpose is worse than poverty of purse."

We never are actually totally helpless. Even a stopped clock shows correct time twice a day. Don't quit trying. Try to find out the meaning of your existence. You will surely get help from none other than The One who created you.

All the Best! Cheer up!

Answer 6

fight it,,, face it

REMEMBER ONE THING DUDE,,, IF U ARE GOIN THRU BAD PHASE OF UR LIFE,, THAT MEANS GOLDEN PHASE OF UR LIFE IS WAITIN  FOR YOUUUUUUUUUU

SO GO AND FIGHT,, BE STRONG MENTALLY

Answer 7

usually i do feel so.....  

Answer 8

EXERPTS FROM MY ARTICLE, HOPE IT HELPS....

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WHEN NOTHING WORKS………………………….

Every one, often in life, experiences this situation…

Nothing works…

Nothing goes well…….

No body helps……………

No way out is seen…………….

Mind is naturally disturbed, only negative thoughts come, courage and enthusiasm is at the bottom…………….

The reason or the root cause may be a serious trouble, health hazards, unexpected financial crisis, death of a beloved one.

It can be a small but continuous trouble like unhealthy atmosphere at job, unsatiable demand from family members, legal involvement, some own demands, expectations from others not fulfilled, mounting pressure of  examination, unrealizable targets, over ambitions, too many things to be done in a short time, and many more………

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REASON-1, FAILURES

Human tendency at such time is to imagine consequences instead of finding remedy.

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REASON-2, HEALTH HAZARDS:

You don’t like the unavoidable situation but refrain from best you could do about it.

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REASON-3, DEATH OF A BELOVED ONE

The nearest kin is likely to behave emotionally more than logically.

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CONCLUSION:

Mind is our best friend in good times but equally bad when in trouble. The root cause of many problems is emotional rather than logical behaviour of mind. Train it for logical behaviour. Perhaps you would find a good solution.

Answer 9

Sometimes I do feel so....

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Answer 10

yes!i think this is common for each and every human!but i've passed through this situation....

:)

Answer 11

Sometimes when unexpected things happen, like having a gruelsome accident, or getting thrown out of place from your loved ones may make us feel that things are really out of control and that we are helpless...

But we may be Wrong at that times.

Things happen the way you make them to happen, every Tiny incident that happens in your life is really the result of something you did.

But it may not be always true, sometimes fate takes a greater chance in shaping your life, but thinking everything is happening only for your good is what we can do even when we are helpless.

Answer 12

Mostly it happened in my professional life , but then in personal life it never happened that everything is out of my control. ( fortunately )